Both are to blame
Natalya Kozhina, AiF.ru: Elena, there is an opinion that women are less likely to cheat than men, is this true?
Elena Tsedova: Women's betrayals are also common, it's just not customary to talk about them. But a man takes a mistress primarily for physical pleasure and variety, while a woman satisfies her emotional needs. This is the main difference. You are unlikely to meet a woman who, having seen a beautiful male figure on the way to work, immediately decides to change her spouse. But if a man saw long legs, and at the same time their owner also smiled at him, he would not mind going to bed with her. In women, everything is closely connected with emotional needs; for them, sex is primarily communication.
- What can push a woman into the arms of another man?
There are several reasons, but the main one is the lack of emotional nourishment from a man. Perhaps a woman lacks a sense of her own attractiveness, significance in the eyes of her husband. At the same time, she can really love him, her family, children, home, but she needs affection, compliments, attention, and her husband does not give them.It happens that a woman not only lacks emotions, she does not need a family. However, she remains married, because society puts pressure on her: marriage is once and for life, you have children. And the woman is trying to find some kind of outlet in this situation, because, in fact, everything does not suit her. The only thing that can help her feel happy is the care of another person. Such women in their novels on the side do not chase enviable lovers, but answer almost the first person they meet, who captivates her with talk about the stars and scatters in compliments.
There are betrayals due to lack of adrenaline. When a woman has everything in her life is normal, but she is insanely bored. And suddenly there is some kind of corporate evening, where she drinks a glass of wine and immediately finds a hero, next to whom she can feel already forgotten feelings. The most important thing in such a betrayal is to hide from someone. This is a kind of quest - "Hide your love from everyone." The woman lacks the game, and she finds it on the side.
In addition, it happens that a man simply does not suit a woman in sex, and here we are talking about both the most banal physical dissatisfaction and emotional, but more often both are present.
And some of them change out of spite. When a wife finds out that her husband has a mistress, she tries in such a strange way to take revenge on him or to prove to herself that men can still like it.
Good men "to the left" rarely leave. But by "good" I don't mean Batman, no. I mean a man who satisfies the emotional needs of his other half.
- It turns out that if a woman cheated, the man is guilty?
- Not. Both are to blame for any betrayal. But men are inherently polygamous and, even being married, pay attention to the opposite sex many times more than women, thinking about sex. And a woman, when she finds a man she loves and is comfortable with, plunges headlong only into him, letting the rest pass by. For her, marriage is a kind of status, she cherishes it. Good men "to the left" rarely leave. But by "good" I don't mean Batman, no. I mean a man who satisfies the emotional needs of his other half. If a woman is not physically satisfied, she is able to survive it, but if emotionally, then most likely she will look for a relationship on the side. The excuse "I make money and that's my main function that makes her happy" doesn't work. A woman can understand with her brain that her husband works, she lives in a luxurious house, she has an expensive car, her children study in the best schools, but at the same time she will feel very lonely.
Night SMS and eternal time pressure
How to understand that a woman is cheating?
- A clear sign is the active use of the phone, the computer, when, with the sounds of SMS, she runs headlong in order to read the message as soon as possible. Also, if the wife puts passwords on gadgets, she starts taking the phone with her to the shower under the pretext of an important call, and at night she systematically receives SMS from “Galina the Accountant”, who cannot wait until the morning. This is the first call. The next sign is a cardinal change of clothes, a change of underwear. If earlier the spouse put on what was comfortable, then with the advent of a lover, she begins to wear what is beautiful. She remembers heels, changes her hair, makeup, becomes brighter. All this happens because when a woman falls in love, she wants to be beautiful.
I note that a man can easily combine several mistresses in his head at once and behave completely calmly. Neither in his clothes, nor in his behavior, he will not betray himself.
And a woman's behavior completely changes, because she goes headlong into a new relationship. She can become either more irritable, or, conversely, as if atoning for her sins, more attentive, gentle, affectionate.
And one more point that you should pay attention to is a kind of harbinger of the fact that a woman is not only cheating on you, but she is clearly uncomfortable around you, and, perhaps, further this will result in a romance on the side. She begins to invent places for herself where to go, it can be not only constant gatherings with friends, but also a busy schedule. For example, a woman lives, is not particularly interested in anything, but one day she has English courses, cutting and sewing, a gym, dancing, running, etc. She constantly wants to leave home. But, of course, this does not apply to those who really fulfill themselves with the help of some hobbies. There should be hobbies, but if they never existed, and then it became more and more, this is a sign that a person is feeling bad in the family. Also, do not ignore the appearance of a large number of new girlfriends who invite you to meetings. This may also indicate that your woman is in search of new emotions. And as they say - who seeks, he will always find.
Do I need to confess to cheating on my husband?
“Everyone makes this decision for himself. But I can say for sure that it is more difficult for a woman to keep the fact of infidelity in herself, she begins to reproach herself from the inside, even if it was a one-time story. If a man cheated once, he will not be very worried about this, he will very quickly forget about such an episode. Remorse of conscience can only appear if he has a permanent lover, since living in several families is very difficult for most men emotionally.
Personally, my advice is not to shift from a sick head to a healthy one, forgive yourself, accept yourself and think carefully before coming to confess to your husband. The most important thing is to understand what is more important for you: family or your personal peace of mind. If you decide to choose peace of mind, then be prepared for the consequences.
Few men will accept a confession of infidelity. For him, this is a humiliation of honor and dignity, so it is better to keep your mouth shut. Women are much easier to forgive betrayal.
Benefit change?
- How should a man behave if he thinks that his wife is cheating, is it necessary to call a woman for frankness and confession?
- First, honestly answer yourself the question: what will you do if your wife really cheats? It is necessary to play the whole possible chain of events in your head. She cheated, so I'm leaving her, we divide property, the children stay with his wife, etc. If a man is ready to go to the end, then you can find out everything and get to the bottom of the truth. If he understands that he loves his wife and does not want to lose her, there is no need to find out anything. It's easier to take the position that it was just flirting, not love, and live happily ever after.
- I have heard more than once that betrayal can help a faded relationship, but what do you think about it?
- There is some truth in this, indeed, after betrayal and even after some light flirting, the woman seems to be shocked, she understands that she has a family, children, a house, everything is fine. This is the same emotional recharge that she lacked so much. Yes, a woman needed beautiful words, courtship, caresses, but at the moment when she receives all this from another man, she comes to the realization that all this is a myth. And real life with a husband and children. However, feeling some guilt behind her, she can become affectionate, gentle and begin to pay more attention to her husband. Accordingly, what will the woman get in return? Also more attention. Therefore, yes, indeed, it happens that infidelity in a sense revives faded marital feelings, but it is better to try to help your marriage using other methods.
A woman appreciates a man by his actions; if the actions are directed at her, she is unlikely to need a pumped-up trainer from a fitness club for one night.
- What would you advise men to do so that their wives do not look for love on the side?
- It is necessary to give a woman emotions, never forget that she needs compliments, attention, care. If you told your wife ten years ago that she has beautiful eyes, this does not mean that now you can never talk about it at all. Give gifts, by the word “gifts” I don’t mean yachts and fur coats every day, just some little surprises. Be sure to talk to each other, not only about the problems of the world economy and the child's school performance, but also about your personal, about each other's feelings, about each other's desires, to sort out discontent at the stage of their inception, and not when everything is already rushing like an avalanche accusations. Relationships are always an exchange of emotions, reciprocity. A man gave flowers, a woman cooked dinner for him, he - evening caresses, she gave him a massage, etc. A woman will not leave an attentive and caring person, because she gets everything she needs from him. A woman appreciates a man by his actions, if the actions are directed at her, she is unlikely to need a pumped-up trainer from a fitness club for one night.
Most often, husbands begin to suspect cheating on his wife because of her constant attempts to avoid sex at all costs - when she began to fall asleep before him or find "urgent" chores around the house to wait for her husband to fall asleep and not harass her.
Actually what wife doesn't want sex, in most cases, indicates only that she is very tired during the day or that she lacks compliments, attention and care. If you told your wife 10 years ago that you love her and she is the most beautiful for you, this does not mean that now you can not talk about it at all.
Relations- it is always reciprocity and exchange of emotions. If the husband is attentive and caring, then the wife receives everything from him, and is ready to reciprocate every day, preparing him a delicious dinner and responding to his offer to have sex with consent. Therefore, it is wrong to doubt a wife’s betrayal just because she rarely agrees to intimacy, and it’s definitely not worth spying on her because of this.
Of course, some women naturally inclined to. They do not need a family, even if the husband gives her gifts every day and does everything to make her happy. She is insanely bored with her husband because he is much older than her and cannot physically satisfy her in bed, or because she herself is depraved.
The wife in this case understands well that her husband she works hard so that she lives in luxury, a chic house, drives an expensive car and that their children go to the best schools, but she is still very lonely and bored. The most important thing for such wives is a game where she has to hide from her husband all the time and feel new feelings in the arms of her lover.
Anyway, rare woman, seeing on the street a handsome man with pumped up muscles, he immediately decides to cheat on her husband. Unlike men who, when they see a girl with long legs smiling at him, are not averse to immediately go to bed with her, women get a lover most often in order to prove to themselves that men can still like her or take revenge on her husband who cheated on her.
Exists 5 sure signs, which indicate that the wife is cheating on you:
1. A radical change in appearance. If your wife has gone on a diet and has begun to carefully monitor her appearance, then a new hairstyle, manicure, pedicure and twinkle in her eyes may be an indicator that she has fallen in love with another man. If earlier she put on what was comfortable, then with the advent of a lover, a woman begins to wear what is beautiful and fashionable. She remembers heels, erotic lingerie, makeup and diet, becomes more vibrant, sexy and slim.
2. Active use of gadgets. If the wife put passwords on the computer and mobile phone, began to take the mobile phone with her to the shower and toilet, and in the evenings she often receives SMS from "friends", then this is the first bell. Pay attention to how the wife behaves when the sound of SMS appears. If she runs headlong to read it, then for sure, they are sent to her not by a friend, but by a lover.
The same goes for the computer. If she immediately minimizes the picture as soon as you approach and changes the password, then this is a sign that she has something to hide from you. To dispel doubts, set the browser on her computer so that it remembers passwords. In the absence of a wife, go under her profile and view messages, emails.
3. Leaves home on weekends. A peculiar indicator that your wife is cheating on you or feels uncomfortable around you is when she goes to courses, to a girlfriend, to fitness, to the library, or to her parents on weekends. Do not believe it if the wife was not fond of anything before, and suddenly she had a burning desire to learn English or start sewing, and signed up for courses. Of course, this behavior does not mean that she wants to fulfill herself through hobbies, she just wants new emotions. And, as you know, who seeks, he will always find.
4. Changed behavior. A woman who has a romantic relationship on the side has a completely different behavior, because she only thinks about her lover all day long. She can become more irritable or, on the contrary, more affectionate and attentive if she is afraid of losing her husband and does not want him to know that he wears "horns".
5. Brings gifts and flowers. If your wife suddenly has expensive things in her wardrobe, perfumes and jewelry, and you didn’t allocate money to buy them from the family budget, then it makes sense to ask her who gave them to her.
Now honestly answer the question: what will you do if you find out for sure that your wife is cheating on you? File for divorce, divide all your property in half and leave, leaving the children with your wife? If you are not ready for such a development of events, then nothing and try to find out everything and prove the betrayal of his wife. If you understand that you love your wife and children, and it will be hard for you to live without them, then you should not even look for signs of an infidelity of your wife. It's easier to accept cheating on your wife as a flirtation that can happen to anyone and continue to live on, showing more love, attention and care to your wife.
I read this story on a website. Husband writes, wife 43, lover 35, married, they have been dating for six months. For several years, the husband persuaded his wife to attend such meetings, she considered it unacceptable to have a lover in marriage, so he is glad that it finally turned out the way he wanted. But now he is afraid that his wife has fallen in love.The wife says that now she wants to have sex with her lover without a condom. She doesn’t want to be with her husband at all, so she said that they would no longer have sex. She likes her lover's member more, and she will meet with him regardless of her husband's desire. The husband would like to meet threesome for MZHM - the wife rejects, hesitates; asked his wife to take a video or photo of their sex on the phone - she allegedly does not know how, but the husband thinks that he simply does not want to; to turn on whatsapp or viber for wiretapping during sex - she is embarrassed that her husband will hear everything.
Here it is necessary to clarify that the topic was created on the forum in the “cuckold” section, therefore, in terms of sex, the husband is satisfied with everything, he is even thinking about buying a chastity belt for himself. But he understands that falling in love with his wife is a big risk, probably not what he wanted after all.
Write your opinions in the comments. Some believe that they have played too much and should be stopped, since a cuckold in bed and a cuckold in life are completely different things. Others believe that it is too late to stop, since the wife fell in love and now she is in control of the situation, and the husband will lose if he interferes with her. She will still meet, only in secret.
But there are many who believe that a wife appreciates her husband and will never leave him, because where else can she find someone who allows everything. And they even give what numbers (where did they get them?) - 1 case in 200 thousand when SW leaves her husband, and that such cases are a million times less than when a wife leaves her husband in a "non-thematic" family. "Love, sex and entertainment will never be on the other side of the scale with the value of having a partner as such." On the contrary, it seems to me that if a person is in love, then he can give up everything for the sake of the object of his passion. It’s just that her lover doesn’t offer her anything yet, since he is married himself, but if he does, then who knows ... And what does it matter, as it was with others, when there is a specific person and everything can be different for him?
The husband is at a crossroads - either stop everything and not take risks, or continue, because he likes the adrenaline that he is getting now, and he is ready to bring the topic to the point of absurdity. Moreover, the theme of cuckolding cannot exist without infringing on the rights of the husband.
The lover, by the way, thinks that the wife cuckolds, deceiving her husband. And the wife explains the passion for him by the fact that he looks like her husband in his youth, although the difference between them is only 5 years.
You stubbornly evade the answer. Turn everything into theory. Well, I will ask you a more specific question, I hope you will answer without excuses from the 10th time. So the development of the embryo emphasizes that all of nature was created by one person? why is it in the embryo? for what? why not make a human embryo immediately after cell division, because he himself did not come from anyone? why does he look like a fish? for an amphibian, for a primate? and only then per person? is it someone who sees without instruments? Or is it some kind of perversion? why are people often born very similar to animals? with tails, fangs, not upright, with thick hair? after all, all people descended only from people, do not intersect with animals, but can be born similar to them? How does your faith explain it? Only Kara and so on, not necessary. I'm finally waiting for a logical explanation and not fantasies. I repeat on jugs and bowls .. make an earthenware jug without clay and water, well! does not work? those. the jug and the bowl have one beginning, the development started from the lower and diverged later. If you go deeper, then initially any jug was clay at the beginning, then a mass with water, then a simple shape, then a round one, then a jug, then a handle is attached to it, a pattern is applied and it appears in its final form. You don't notice that there is evolution here too! This evolution can be stopped anywhere.. just make a jar.. put aside, then attach a handle to it and it will have a handle, then draw a picture on it or not.. but there is a final jug, the most developed of all. Now about space. You have no evidence that humanity has flown. And judging by the development, it could not fly in principle. There are no fairy tales about the global floods and the birth of mankind anew. Now about rock paintings. Man always draws what he sees, right? Why are the pyramids and other primitive objects still preserved, but there are no details of flying and spaceships? Why do people who have aircraft, who can do trepanation, have a primitive sewerage, pipeline, do not know how to make glass and do not light their houses with electricity? Maybe it was all not human and not from here? therefore, all the ships flew away and the remains and nothing at all, except for really primitive mechanisms, were preserved? How to combine high intelligence and sorry to eat from a pig trough? And lastly, you don’t know how to use sarcasm, don’t try to do something that you don’t understand, it turns out .. how to put it, it’s not very beautiful. I wait once again not for theoretical reasoning and writing off your faith, but for real answers. Which time.
if you don't want to listen say so. I'm just trying to explain logically to you, but you don't want to listen to anyone but yourself. You would have taken my statements and refuted them with facts and not just shouting that everything is wrong. Even you don’t have answers to all the questions posed - you don’t think that the embryo evolves in the mother’s stomach, adjusting to the environment? The fact that there are genetic mutations and failures does not confirm or refute evolution - errors and failures are everywhere, and if you consider that the failure occurs under the influence of external factors (alcohol, tobacco, drugs, environmental pollution, etc.), then what is not a punishment God's? and the fact that a failure can be in any direction also shows that animals are sometimes born with a human face, but this does not mean that animals are descended from humans.
As for without water and clay - so water and clay is an analogy of a cell. A cell is what all living things, including plants, consist of - this is the building material from which everything is made. And when you describe the process of making a jug, you show precisely its creation and not evolution (evolution is the mutation and adaptation of an adult organism under the influence of changing external factors) In other words, if a mug under the influence of hot tea began to adapt to a jug so that hot drinks were not poured into it - this is evolution.
About space - to argue that humanity could not fly into space before, based only on a separate section of history - this is pure ignorance. If you read the Vedas, then there is a mention of aircraft and even their division into space and earth. Once again about the Maya and their drawing of a helicopter and an airplane - but can it not be that the drawing was applied before the disaster? and where do they all go? And by the way, as a builder, I am very surprised that you consider the pyramids to be a primitive object. Even now, with our technologies and construction machines, we will not be able to repeat them - since there was grinding of the stone after it was laid, and at the same time they picked up the stones so that when they lay on top of each other, it was hard to put a pin through, and without any mortar. And the purpose of the pyramids is still unknown - it was then that Tutankhamun restored the destroyed parts of the pyramid (as evidenced by different masonry walls - stones are perfectly fitted on one wall and clumsily laid and made on the other) and adapted for his own tomb.
Well, again, you miss the possibility of a planetary-scale catastrophe. Let's discuss what happens if tomorrow there is a disaster with a handful of survivors. That man will continue to fly into space? save the blueprints for the aircraft and spacecraft? But will these drawings be preserved on paper even after a thousand years? But the drawing of children of survivors hollowed out in a cave is easy. Why in a cave? so you think you can build a modern house without all the factories and building materials? can you at least produce cement, not primitive? And how much do you know the arrangement of at least sewerage and water supply in your own house? And how many ways do you know how to supply water to the house in the absence of electricity? Or do you know how to make a generator in the absence of copper and iron factories? Or can you make wire at home? I am sure that for you even getting a fire without matches is already a problem, but I am generally silent about the manufacture of glass. So it turns out that with high intelligence, survivors will be happy to eat from a pig trough if there is food.
And the survivors will be preoccupied with survival (getting skins and food - since factories and a refrigerator with food are already gone) and will not be able to transfer their little knowledge (within a small group of people) to their grandchildren, even write and read maximum, and then because of the small value of this knowledge in the process of obtaining food in the wild and they will be lost to be reinvented later in the millennia.
In general, take scientific works for all the inexplicable facts and finds - there are a lot of interesting things. Previously, even a series of brochures was called Knowledge with a scientific approach to every inexplicable find, including the Maya and pyramids and a hammer made of pure iron (still unable to get pure iron) and rivets made of titanium (they began to process since the end of the last century) and geographical maps all of the earth made before Columbus's voyage, including Antarctica without ice cover (the accuracy of which was only recently verified using the echo sounder method).
I listen to you every time and the 10th time I ask you the same questions. You either theoretically invent something, then you avoid answers, then you ignore it. If you do not have answers to my questions, first of all, do not redirect them to me. I repeat once again, your faith is no proof of anything! I didn't give you the facts? Those. development of the embryo, archaeological excavations, not facts for you? I ask the question how does the development of the embryo confirm the existence of God? God is a geneticist? Those. he monitors every birth, but doesn’t have time to punish adults? if there are deviations, is it God's punishment? What kind of ignorance? It is ignorant to believe in something without the existence of some facts. As always, you have the same assumptions. If humanity flew into space, at least some artifacts should remain. You can’t fly into space on blocks of stone, it’s not like trepanning skulls. Here! The evolution of animals is an adaptation to the environment, but this evolution has a limit, strengths and other things, so animals began to develop a brain! It is not just the fit that survives, but the smarter!!! Who knows that it's easier to do smart, find a cave, make a fire, than just sleep in the snow and rely on your own warmth. About the drawings, I said, you are apparently not attentive, I will repeat to you. If there were such devices, where is something from them, except for the drawings? those. various antiquities have been preserved, but there are no parts and mechanisms? evaporated? And where is the evidence that the pyramids did not help people build someone with great intelligence and technical means? not earthlings, but aliens? then it is clear why everything in a person is overwhelmingly underdeveloped and primitive, and why there are no machines and mechanisms, they were taken by aliens. What an electoral disaster you have, it took away all the equipment! thinking world then? intelligent meteorite? highly developed tsunami? Now about personalities. I know very well about the sewage system in my house, I did it myself. I am also well versed in mechanisms, internal combustion engines and electric engines. It is not at all a problem for me to light a fire in such conditions, where you will die of hunger and cold. I repeat the question for backfilling. Where did at least some parts and details of machines, aircraft, spaceships go? Regarding time and decay, iron products of a much older age than the pyramids have survived to our time, and often in almost excellent condition. where are the very factories for the manufacture of these machines, metal casting and so on? also disappeared in a mysterious and mystical way? another smart disaster? Why destroyed items selectively? I will repeat several times. You can see, I don’t need to expose your faith to anyone and with fairy tales about many world catastrophes from your book. I'm waiting for an answer to at least one question. About scientific literature and the unknown. Who said that it was all done by man or mankind? Blind faith again? If a man did and went into a cave, became stupid to the beasts and the cave, how could he get back, without evolution, the knowledge that he had lost? And again the question is, where are the remains of mechanisms, apparatus, factories for the construction of these things, for the production of metals, minerals, and so on and so forth? where? disappeared? So selectively and consistently, or did people create mechanisms out of thin air, like they believed and materialized, and then, after death, everything dematerialized? I look forward to answers to such simple questions.
Do you even read what I write or just browse? I don’t tell facts, I tell the theory just like you - you also don’t have facts, but the development of the embryo proves absolutely nothing. But many archaeological excavations suggest exactly my thoughts - it feels like you are not interested in these very excavations at all and are trying to build your evidence on those excavations that you were told at school - look beyond your nose.
Also, you do not even know the essence of evolution, but you are trying to argue. So in evolution, it is the fittest who survive, not the smartest. The point is that you will be smart if stupid and strong neighbors will take your food away and you will die of hunger. That is why in nature animals are strong and hardy but not smart.
As for why the factories didn’t survive, we don’t know, maybe human development was so great that factories weren’t needed and everything was produced by some kind of energy (again, why were the pyramids needed?) and the fact that a person now knows this is 1% of those knowledge. By the way, there was such a scientist Nikola Tesla at the beginning of the 20th century, so what he did with electrical energy still remains a mystery, how did he do it? (read at your leisure - the Tunguska meteorite is also associated with his name).
Have you ever read anything other than a school textbook before arguing? otherwise I got the impression that I was arguing with the school curriculum. And in general, read at least something other than the embryo.
Good luck. If you cannot refute at least one of my assumptions other than "all this is not true," then I have nothing to talk about with you.
P.S. If you understand an internal combustion engine, assemble it with your own hands in your garage, but not from engine spare parts, but from scrap metal, while the engine itself just lies nearby as a sample (and at the same time, you must also make metal processing tools yourself in your garage, because where do you get it after the catastrophe), and if it starts and goes, then I will be the first to admit that I was wrong and nothing should be lost in any catastrophe.
To clarify or not a relationship with his wife's lover? You do not have any relationship with your wife's lover and something to find out with him. This wife married you, took an oath of allegiance, gave birth to your children, she is part of your family, and not her lover at all, it’s your relationship with her - that’s all you need to find out with your wife. And then you know, This wife will not end from the fact that you will fill your lover's face. Or he to you.
I want to allow my wife to have sex with her lover. Opinions? You are doing this out of impotence. To permit what you cannot forbid is an act of weakness. And this will no longer be marriage, and not even its imitation, but some completely different type of relationship. Here the wife is not the wife, and the husband is not the husband. There are men who, having a wife, a lover, "turns on", as they say, and not only sexually, but generally spices up existence, and if you are one of these, then everything is clear, I have no question. But if not, then it is better to part with such a wife than to indulge her. All the same, not you, her, so she will leave you: such a woman needs a strong, strong-willed man who will grab her by the hair, bend her and unfasten her ass with reins. And then she will understand (hardly?) Where is good, where is bad. Wife texting ex-lover? He is not your wife's ex. She has an interest in him, she communicates with him regularly and if she does not sleep with him right now, then this will happen in the future. But he's probably already asleep. A former lover is a man with whom absolutely all contacts are broken. If at least correspondence is saved, then this is not a former lover, but a "lover in pause mode."
How to punish your wife's lover? Get a divorce and force him to marry her. Become the lover of your ex-wife yourself - let him be tormented by jealousy. It was not your lover who married you and took an oath of allegiance, but your wife ...
Wife has a lover boss and sleeps with him because of his career. If you think that her career is so important that you can do it in any way, including this, then endure and live with the walker. Or get divorced. This will further contribute to the career of your unfaithful wife, and free you from the role of a cuckold. And by the way, how far has your wife moved up the career ladder spreading her legs under her boss? And it won't move. She gives herself up for hope alone .... Well, for pleasure, of course, too.
I let my wife go to her lover? In fact, she left on her own. Well, now breathe freely and file for divorce and get rid of this woman. Otherwise, she will undertake to play with you - she will live with this lover, then she will return to you, then she will go to another, then she will return ... one word - walking! If she really fell in love, she would have filed for divorce herself, even before leaving for her lover. And so she keeps you and your marriage with her in reserve.
How to make the wife herself break up with him and return to her husband? Incredible intrigue. File for divorce, but don't rush things. External hardness to divorce her. This often helps a lot. Well, the good old way - with the reins on the pope.
How to treat your wife's ex-lovers? Treat them as friends, because you are all members of the same family!
