On September 29, as part of the Hedgehog lecture, another lecture by the famous psychologist Mikhail Labkovsky was held, where he told parents how to choose a school, whether they should argue with the teacher, and at what point they should just leave their child behind.
TIP 1
There is no need to burden children with anything before school. No chess foreign languages and other things intellectual development. Until the age of 6-7 years, a child’s brain is not physiologically ready to perceive large amounts of information. You will lose money, and he will lose his childhood.
TIP 2
Don't look for a cool school for your first grader. IN primary school The main thing for a child is psychological comfort. Therefore, choose a normal school near your home. The child will not waste time and energy on the road, and it will be easier for him to establish relationships with classmates if they live in the neighborhood.
TIP 3
The first teacher should not be “strong”, but kind. You just need adequate woman, who loves children and works at school as a vocation. To do this, go to your chosen school in the spring and ask parents about the teachers who are graduating 4th grade. TIP 4
School is your child's responsibility, not yours. You can take a vacation for the first two weeks of first grade, and then it’s better to agree with your child like this: “Your school doesn’t bother me, I don’t bother you.”
TIP 5
Stop asking about lessons and reacting to grades. Let the topic of school become taboo for you. If the child wants, talk to him, if he doesn’t want, there is no need to find out how it is and what.
TIP 6
There is no need to do homework with your child, no need to pack a briefcase, no need to check your uniform. Think about yourself, because your child will then live and feed you in old age! And if you do everything for him, there will be big problems with this.
TIP 7
Of course you can help your child. The fundamental point here is who started it first. The child must start. He should ask: “Mom, I don’t understand this.” Instead of you coming up and asking if everything is okay. If he doesn't ask for anything, then everything is fine with him.
TIP 8
If the teacher does not like your child, the problem must be solved. Try talking to the teacher first, then to the director; if that doesn’t work, go to the Regional Educational Institution. You can transfer to another parallel or to another school altogether. Under no circumstances should you leave your child in a state of prolonged, permanent stress.
TIP 9
Puberty is the most difficult period in your child's life. It begins at approximately 12-14 years of age and lasts until 15-16 years of age. This is a time of difficult mental and physical changes, from here hormonal imbalance, psychological problems, fatigue. Moreover, it is at this time that the child must take the Unified State Exam, and then the Unified State Exam. Yes, he may begin to study worse, slipping into C grades. My advice is this: if you don’t want conflicts and serious problems, including suicide attempts, just don’t touch the child. Your task is to get through this time as quickly and calmly as possible so that this nightmare ends.
TIP 10
There is no need to openly conflict with the school - most likely you will lose. When you are invited to a conversation and they talk about a strong school, a difficult program and the need to work with your child, don’t argue. Agree. And keep doing it your way.
TIP 11
A child’s talents do not have to be specially developed and realized if the child himself does not want this. Talent should give joy, it is not meant to be used. There is no need to strain yourself, look for teachers and wait for “how it will turn out.” More often than not, it doesn’t lead to anything, and there’s nothing tragic about it.
TIP 12
The most important thing is to learn to accept your child without expecting anything from him. No matter how he studies or how he behaves, love him for who he is. Yes, at 15 years old it is more difficult than at five. The child should not cause you rejection. But to do this, you must first love yourself.
“How to prevent school from breaking your child”
Psychologist
On September 29, as part of the Hedgehog lecture, another lecture by the famous psychologist Mikhail Labkovsky was held, where he told parents how to choose a school, whether they should argue with the teacher, and at what point they should just leave their child behind.
Tip 1
There is no need to burden children with anything before school. No chess, foreign languages or other intellectual development. Until the age of 6-7 years, a child’s brain is not physiologically ready to perceive large amounts of information. You will lose money, and he will lose his childhood.
Tip 2
Don't look for a cool school for your first grader. In elementary school, the main thing for a child is psychological comfort. Therefore, choose a normal school near your home. The child will not waste time and energy on the road, and it will be easier for him to establish relationships with classmates if they live in the neighborhood.
Tip 3
The first teacher should not be “strong”, but kind. You just need an adequate woman who loves children and works at school as a vocation. To do this, go to your chosen school in the spring and ask parents about the teachers who are graduating 4th grade.
Tip 4
School is your child's responsibility, not yours. You can take a vacation for the first two weeks of first grade, and then it’s better to agree with your child like this: “Your school doesn’t bother me, I don’t bother you.”
Tip 5
Stop asking about lessons and reacting to grades. Let the topic of school become taboo for you. If the child wants, talk to him, if he doesn’t want, there is no need to find out how it is and what.
Tip 6
There is no need to do homework with your child, no need to pack a briefcase, no need to check your uniform. Think about yourself, because your child will then live and feed you in old age! And if you do everything for him, there will be big problems with this.
Tip 7
Of course you can help your child. The fundamental point here is who started it first. The child must start. He should ask: “Mom, I don’t understand this.” Instead of you coming up and asking if everything is okay. If he doesn't ask for anything, then everything is fine with him.
Tip 8
If the teacher does not like your child, the problem must be solved. Try talking to the teacher first, then to the director; if that doesn’t work, go to the Regional Educational Institution. You can transfer to another parallel or to another school altogether. Under no circumstances should you leave your child in a state of prolonged, permanent stress.
Tip 9
Puberty is the most difficult period in your child's life. It begins at approximately 12-14 years of age and lasts until 15-16 years of age. This is a time of complex mental and physical changes, hence hormonal imbalance, psychological problems, and fatigue.
Moreover, it is at this time that the child must take the Unified State Exam, and then the Unified State Exam. Yes, he may begin to study worse, slipping into C grades. My advice is this: if you don’t want conflicts and serious problems, including suicide attempts, just don’t touch the child. Your task is to get through this time as quickly and calmly as possible so that this nightmare ends.
Tip 10
There is no need to openly conflict with the school - most likely you will lose. When you are invited to a conversation and they talk about a strong school, a difficult program and the need to work with your child, don’t argue. Agree. And keep doing it your way.
Tip 11
A child’s talents do not have to be specially developed and realized if the child himself does not want this. Talent should give joy, it is not meant to be used. There is no need to strain yourself, look for teachers and wait for “how it will turn out.” More often than not, it doesn’t lead to anything, and there’s nothing tragic about it.
Tip 12
The most important thing is to learn to accept your child without expecting anything from him. No matter how he studies or how he behaves, love him for who he is. Yes, at 15 years old it is more difficult than at five. The child should not cause you rejection. But to do this, you must first love yourself.
Lecture by the famous psychologist Mikhail Labkovsky, where he told parents how to choose a school, whether to argue with the teacher and at what point...
A lecture by the famous psychologist Mikhail Labkovsky, where he told parents how to choose a school, whether they should argue with the teacher, and at what point they should just leave the child behind.
TIP 1 There is no need to burden children with anything before school. No chess, foreign languages or other intellectual development. Until the age of 6-7 years, a child’s brain is not physiologically ready to perceive large amounts of information. You will lose money, and he will lose his childhood.
TIP 2 Don't look for a cool school for your first grader. In elementary school, the main thing for a child is psychological comfort. Therefore, choose a normal school near your home. The child will not waste time and energy on the road, and it will be easier for him to establish relationships with classmates if they live in the neighborhood. TIP 3 The first teacher should not be “strong”, but kind. You just need an adequate woman who loves children and works at school as a vocation. To do this, go to your chosen school in the spring and ask parents about the teachers who are graduating 4th grade.
TIP 4 School is your child's responsibility, not yours. You can take a vacation for the first two weeks of first grade, and then it’s better to come to an agreement with your child like this: “Your school doesn’t bother me, I don’t bother you.”
TIP 5 Stop asking about lessons and reacting to grades. Let the topic of school become taboo for you. If the child wants, talk to him, if he doesn’t want to, there is no need to find out how it is and what.
TIP 6 There is no need to do homework with your child, no need to pack a briefcase, no need to check your uniform. Think about yourself, because your child will then live and feed you in old age! And if you do everything for him, there will be big problems with this.
TIP 7 Of course you can help your child. The fundamental point here is who started it first. The child must start. He should ask: “Mom, I don’t understand this.” Instead of you coming up and asking if everything is okay. If he doesn't ask for anything, then everything is fine with him.
TIP 8 If the teacher does not like your child, the problem must be solved. Try talking to the teacher first, then to the director; if that doesn’t work, go to the Regional Educational Institution. You can transfer to another parallel or to another school altogether. Under no circumstances should you leave your child in a state of prolonged, permanent stress.
TIP 9 Puberty is the most difficult period in your child's life. It begins at approximately 12-14 years of age and lasts until 15-16 years of age. This is a time of complex mental and physical changes, hence hormonal imbalance, psychological problems, and fatigue. Moreover, it is at this time that the child must take the Unified State Exam, and then the Unified State Exam. Yes, he may begin to study worse, slipping into C grades. My advice is this: if you don’t want conflicts and serious problems, including suicide attempts, just don’t touch the child. Your task is to get through this time as quickly and calmly as possible so that this nightmare ends.
TIP 10 There is no need to openly conflict with the school - most likely you will lose. When you are invited to a conversation and they talk about a strong school, a difficult program and the need to work with your child, don’t argue. Agree. And keep doing it your way.
TIP 11 A child’s talents do not have to be specially developed and realized if the child himself does not want this. Talent should give joy, it is not meant to be used. There is no need to strain yourself, look for teachers and wait for “how it will turn out.” More often than not, it doesn’t lead to anything, and there’s nothing tragic about it.
TIP 12 The most important thing is to learn to accept your child without expecting anything from him. No matter how he studies or how he behaves, love him for who he is. Yes, at 15 years old it is more difficult than at five. The child should not cause you rejection. But to do this, you must first love yourself.
On September 29, as part of the Hedgehog lecture, another lecture by the famous psychologist Mikhail Labkovsky was held, where he told parents how to choose a school, whether they should argue with the teacher, and at what point they should just leave their child behind.
TIP 1
There is no need to burden children with anything before school. No chess, foreign languages or other intellectual development. Until the age of 6-7 years, a child’s brain is not physiologically ready to perceive large amounts of information. You will lose money, and he will lose his childhood.
TIP 2
Don't look for a cool school for your first grader. In elementary school, the main thing for a child is psychological comfort. Therefore, choose a normal school near your home. The child will not waste time and energy on the road, and it will be easier for him to establish relationships with classmates if they live in the neighborhood.
TIP 3
The first teacher should not be “strong”, but kind. You just need an adequate woman who loves children and works at school as a vocation. To do this, go to your chosen school in the spring and ask parents about the teachers who are graduating 4th grade. TIP 4
School is your child's responsibility, not yours. You can take a vacation for the first two weeks of first grade, and then it’s better to agree with your child like this: “Your school doesn’t bother me, I don’t bother you.”
TIP 5
Stop asking about lessons and reacting to grades. Let the topic of school become taboo for you. If the child wants, talk to him, if he doesn’t want, there is no need to find out how it is and what.
TIP 6
There is no need to do homework with your child, no need to pack a briefcase, no need to check your uniform. Think about yourself, because your child will then live and feed you in old age! And if you do everything for him, there will be big problems with this.
TIP 7
Of course you can help your child. The fundamental point here is who started it first. The child must start. He should ask: “Mom, I don’t understand this.” Instead of you coming up and asking if everything is okay. If he doesn't ask for anything, then everything is fine with him.
TIP 8
If the teacher does not like your child, the problem must be solved. Try talking to the teacher first, then to the director; if that doesn’t work, go to the Regional Educational Institution. You can transfer to another parallel or to another school altogether. Under no circumstances should you leave your child in a state of prolonged, permanent stress.
TIP 9
Puberty is the most difficult period in your child's life. It begins at approximately 12-14 years of age and lasts until 15-16 years of age. This is a time of complex mental and physical changes, hence hormonal imbalance, psychological problems, and fatigue. Moreover, it is at this time that the child must take the Unified State Exam, and then the Unified State Exam. Yes, he may begin to study worse, slipping into C grades. My advice is this: if you don’t want conflicts and serious problems, including suicide attempts, just don’t touch the child. Your task is to get through this time as quickly and calmly as possible so that this nightmare ends.
TIP 10
There is no need to openly conflict with the school - most likely you will lose. When you are invited to a conversation and they talk about a strong school, a difficult program and the need to work with your child, don’t argue. Agree. And keep doing it your way.
TIP 11
A child’s talents do not have to be specially developed and realized if the child himself does not want this. Talent should give joy, it is not meant to be used. There is no need to strain yourself, look for teachers and wait for “how it will turn out.” More often than not, it doesn’t lead to anything, and there’s nothing tragic about it.
TIP 12
The most important thing is to learn to accept your child without expecting anything from him. No matter how he studies or how he behaves, love him for who he is. Yes, at 15 years old it is more difficult than at five. The child should not cause you rejection. But to do this, you must first love yourself.
On September 29, as part of the Hedgehog lecture, another lecture by the famous psychologist Mikhail Labkovsky was held, where he told parents how to choose a school, whether they should argue with the teacher, and at what point they should just leave their child behind.
There is no need to burden children with anything before school. No chess, foreign languages or other intellectual development. Until the age of 6-7 years, a child’s brain is not physiologically ready to perceive large amounts of information. You will lose money, and he will lose his childhood.Moreover, it is at this time that the child must take the Unified State Exam, and then the Unified State Exam. Yes, he may begin to study worse, slipping into C grades. My advice is this: if you don’t want conflicts and serious problems, including suicide attempts, just don’t touch the child. Your task is to get through this time as quickly and calmly as possible so that this nightmare ends.
There is no need to openly conflict with the school - most likely you will lose. When you are invited to a conversation and they talk about a strong school, a difficult program and the need to work with your child, don’t argue. Agree. And keep doing it your way.
