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Recently, the topics of success and personal growth often stand side by side. This is quite natural. After all, many goals become achievable only under the condition of internal changes. However, it is no secret that behind the desire to succeed is often the desire to realize oneself and take place as a person. For this purpose, numerous psychological techniques are studied, seminars and trainings are attended. To succeed as a person is something more than just to succeed. There are many people who, even having made a dizzying career, still do not dare to confidently say about themselves that they are accomplished individuals. Of course, perception and evaluation of oneself is a subjective thing. But, of course, it is worth thinking about what qualities an accomplished person should have. Courage to be yourself Everyone has certain abilities. Another thing is that not everyone develops them in themselves and uses them. An established personality is characterized by a constant desire to reveal their inclinations. This is not easy, if only because it sometimes takes a lot of courage. But that's the quality...
Recently, the topics of success and personal growth often stand side by side. This is quite natural. After all, many goals become achievable only under the condition of internal changes. However, it is no secret that behind the desire to succeed is often the desire to realize oneself and take place as a person. For this purpose, numerous psychological techniques are studied, seminars and trainings are attended.
Being a person is about more than just being successful. There are many people who, even having made a dizzying career, still do not dare to confidently say about themselves that they are accomplished individuals. Of course, perception and evaluation of oneself is a subjective thing. But, of course, it is worth thinking about what qualities an accomplished person should have.
Courage to be yourself
Everyone has certain abilities. Another thing is that not everyone develops them in themselves and uses them. An established personality is characterized by a constant desire to reveal their inclinations. This is not easy, if only because it sometimes takes a lot of courage. But this is the quality without which it is impossible to take place as a person. The tandem of talent and courage allows you to reveal your best qualities. Self-development becomes the norm of life.
The ability to never lose your face and remain yourself in any situation is extremely important. This requires a high level of psychological maturity, which is unthinkable without a stable worldview. A person has a clear system of values, from which he will never give up for the sake of a fleeting benefit. He knows how to resist temptations and limit himself.
Of course, this requires a lot of strength, primarily spiritual. They are given by awareness of their responsibility to the world. A person knows that his personality is a great value. Therefore, he does not close himself only in his own interests, but seeks to leave something behind - something that could make the world a better place. As pretentious as it all sounds, this is how it is.
Endless way
In any case, you will need the ability to live in harmony with yourself and with the universe. In Chinese philosophy, such a concept as Tao is used - the way. An important step in order to take place in the personal plan is to find your own channel, which will lead to that point of balance, where the maximum manifestation of oneself will become possible. This is a difficult process, often even painful. But an accomplished person is not afraid of difficulties, therefore he clearly knows who he is and where he is going.
Inner growth must continue throughout life. That is why it is impossible to become an accomplished person once and for all. Even the allotted earthly term may not be enough for full self-realization. It is unattainable - at any stage of development something more is possible. Mistakes and disappointments are also not excluded. And you will have to constantly overcome difficulties.
A person moves in the chosen direction, tries to achieve as much as possible, knowing that any result will not be ideal. It takes wisdom to understand this, but still go forward. An established personality can boldly face not too cheerful truths. However, for her, the process of improvement itself acquires great value. After all, the essence of earthly searches is continuous movement.
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What kind of person can be said to be "made"? and got the best answer
Answer from Artur Valiev[guru]
🙂 The question is actually very difficult.
There must be some self-deception here. After all, an accomplished person is rather not an assessment of society. And his personal attitude. Therefore, when we give an assessment to another person as "an accomplished person", we miss his personal opinion - whether he succeeded or not.
I also met those who held high positions and at the same time had eyes full of fear for their place. I also met "ordinary" workers with a confident look and firm principles. Therefore, it depends little on the position in society. True, such people have authority and their word is weighty (but it is unlikely that everyone who has authority is held).
There lived such a person - Maslow (Maslov). His pyramid of needs is known to anyone passing training in the psychology of sales. So, at the end of his life, he revised the approach to the analysis of human goals. And he brought out a new component - a self-realized person. Probably this concept comes closest to "an accomplished person." And in his latest books, he even lists those characteristics that may suggest that you are a self-actualized person. Among them, he names as the need for solitude and falling out of society.
Probably, if you believe him, then an accomplished person is a person who seeks to leave society. Or in other words - a dead person for society.
By the way, remembering the Christian "only a lost grain can be reborn into a better life" - you understand the depth of this issue.
Answer from Vladimir Shlyakhtin[guru]
Over which they read the funeral. And if you breathe, everything is still ahead ... In my opinion, a similar question has already been (took place). Regards.
Answer from Ekaterina[guru]
not you have to say something, but he himself must be aware of himself as such
Answer from Isis[guru]
It seems to me that in this matter all the wisdom is in simplicity. The one who built a house, raised a son and planted a tree took place. Everyone under these simple concepts will understand OWN. Even a HOUSE may not be a material, but a purely spiritual concept. So are the SON and the TREE. Everything depends entirely on the spiritual level of the person himself. For some, a solid log house with a bathhouse in the yard, a garden under the window and grown-up children are probably the highest meaning of their existence. And someone does not need it at all and his aspirations are all in music or science. And it took place right THERE.
Answer from Vladimir Anisimkov[guru]
Most likely, one can talk about a person who has already taken place only when the Personality has finally formed in him, when the basic questions of his own existence are asked and the time has come to realize himself, or rather to realize (after all, this process can easily be interrupted, due to the fragility of human life).
Answer from martian[expert]
we all notice that every thing on earth has its own purpose - and we people also have a purpose! an accomplished person is a person who moves to the top in his calling!
Answer from YATYANA[guru]
If a person is CONFIDENT in himself (not to be confused with SELF-CONFIDENCE), he is in his power. So this is a PERSON.
Answer from "@tu."[guru]
Only about the president of his country!
Answer from Yotepan Alexandrov[guru]
I can't say the same for anyone else, it's a personal assessment.
Answer from ryam***[guru]
the one who is always balanced is not in a hurry and always knows what he wants and how to achieve
Answer from User deleted[newbie]
Yes, you can’t say about anyone that that’s all - it took place. Man is a dynamic, constantly changing being, and those views and achievements that were yesterday may seem absurd to him today. I do not think that there is a final phase - "took place" or reached some level. Throughout our lives, we have been climbing towards the goal, working, gaining wholesale, knowledge, as inveterate buyers say - “we are leveling up”, so that the “held” concept has become obsolete, we have no boundaries 🙂
Answer from white power[newbie]
I think that an accomplished person is the person who has a beautiful wife, happy children, and he himself is always in business and his work!
Answer from Nyusha[guru]
It depends on the gender of the person. I am personally deeply convinced that in order to succeed a woman, she simply needs to fulfill her natural destiny (and not at 30-40 years old, but before 25 is desirable), to have a full-fledged family (although, of course, a husband may turn out to be the last reptile and here you won’t demand anything from her, it’s not your fault), devote your life to children, raise worthy people. And for a man, to get a higher education in order to then have a well-paid job, this, in turn, is necessary to create and providing for the family. That is, a man must also form a family. Well, and further, particulars. This is the main thing, in my opinion.
I am 29 years old. I still live with my parents. There was a failed and stupid marriage with a friend, after which I lost both a friend, and so on. husband. I never found myself at work. All I have to do is be different managers in different companies. Different - because I am absolutely not interested in what I do. Neither economics, nor law, nor accounting, nor sales, nor procurement, nor personnel, nor logistics - nothing brought me that niche in which I want to stay forever. All my work lasted a maximum of six months, while it was interesting and new. Then the interest abruptly disappears, and so much so that I start to get sick all the time, do not get out of the hospital, change in relations with colleagues and everything leads to mutual separation. For the last few months I have not worked at all, I have a person who understands me and somehow supports me, this is my cousin. I am a little embarrassed, but only a little, because in 9 years I finally lost faith that I could achieve something - at least a calm and stable job in one place. Frequent transitions flicker in the labor, this scares off employers. In his personal life, he has long been a complete zero, with the exception of a few intrigues at a time. But it does not kill me so crushingly than some helplessness in financial and material terms. I sit and believe in some miracles that can suddenly happen to me, I find millions of different hobbies - some stick for a long time, some fall off. One of the hobbies I tried to make a living, and it seemed to go well at first, but then it stalled, because I have absolutely no idea how to sell myself. I tried this way and that, and attended lectures, listened to and watched webinars. Not much yet. Moreover, in life I am a very positive person, I don’t complain to anyone and don’t like to whine, my friends don’t know anything about what’s happening to me, I’m lying about something, somehow dodging, and it seems everyone believes because no one cares , by and large. And I have some kind of complex about this, because I never ask for help, from anyone. Not at work, not anywhere. Sometimes I think if I feel bad, God forbid, on the street, I'll just die quietly, because I'm ashamed to ask for help. I have to do everything myself. But it so happened that I can no longer do anything myself, and I begin to seriously think about whether it is worth continuing to live like this. I didn’t mention - there are no children, and they are unlikely to be. And there is no one to give birth to, and health is not particularly. Maybe someone knows how to pull yourself out of the vicious circle and run away from your life, becoming someone else? Because being me is pretty exhausting.
Once upon a time, one famous character from a work of at least
famous classic spoke from the stage of the Irkutsk regional
Drama Theater named after N.P. Okhlopkova: "Man
— it sounds proud!”. You, Anatoly Andreevich, with your work
in this theater they proved that the director is also a person!
When new times came and it became clear that the theater
does not start with a hanger, but with a lack of finance, you
managed to restore this masterpiece of architectural
architecture, that the best teams now dream of such a theater
Russia, the CIS, and, perhaps, Europe.
When many directors unsuccessfully racked their brains, how
go on tour at least to a neighboring city, you
managed to successfully go on tour in America twice,
cut a window to Europe, having traveled to Germany and Bulgaria,
and now you are already packing your bags for Japan. These routes
talk about many things, but first of all about the demand
your theatre.
Here you can still talk at length about the traditional
Vampilov festivals and about the “Shine of Russia”, only one
the implementation of which requires outstanding organizational
abilities, but the trouble is that the newspaper strip is not rubber.
I can easily continue the list of your good deeds, which have multiplied
glorious traditions of the cultural life of the Siberian land, but
that's not the point. Their number and scale pushes me
to an insane thought - are you not the same age as the theater ?! By the way,
Your wisdom, inherent in the elders of the East, in resolution
the most difficult, seemingly hopeless situations in the cultural
life of our region once again convinces of this.
Each of us has our own moment of truth. It happens
only once, when life exposes a person twice
"excellent" on his 55th birthday. Most match
such an assessment only by the number of years lived, a minority
- according to the number of deeds. Vas, Anatoly Andreevich,
can safely be attributed to the category of the second.
I know that I invited you on tempting terms to
work in the capital Kalyagin himself. And you remained faithful to the capital
Eastern Siberia. And they did it right: for the Cossack prowess
and temperament - you are from the Cossacks - Siberian air
more suitable. He's cleaner.
That is why if I were now asked to find the exact
a synonym for the phrase "accomplished person", I would,
without hesitation, he put the name Streltsov.
Anton SHLOIDO, General Director of ZAO Irkutskpromstroy
In our life cycle, rarely, but events do occur
extraordinary and significant. In Irkutsk, such an event
was the anniversary of the director of the theater. N.P. Okhlopkova Anatolia
Andreevich Streltsov.
His life does not fit into the usual framework. informal, like
it's fashionable to talk now. He is successful in everything - in the theater,
in general activities, he has a family, a house - a full bowl.
Much was given to him from birth, he achieved a lot
myself.
We have known him not very long, since the restoration
theater.
I remember the years of theater reconstruction. All this time within its walls
a grandiose spectacle was played out, the name of which is construction.
Here, sometimes it was so twisted that many playwrights
would envy. And this play was written mainly on weekly
construction staff meetings. They argued, they fought. Sometimes not
coincided with the ideological approaches of the members of the headquarters, in which
included officials, builders, employees of the department of culture,
TsSN and Streltsov himself. But still found a solution that suits
everyone.
But when it came to constructive solutions, the last
the word has always been behind the person, it seems very distant
from construction, namely the director of the academic
drama theater Anatoly Streltsov. Yes this and
clear: the builders will leave, and the director will remain in his
renovated house. And he has to work here. So Anatoly
Andreevich has learned a lot in these two-plus years,
discovered a lot.
And he believed in us. He was rooting for everything: he decided what chairs would be
in the hall - and went to Italy for unique furniture (such
only available at La Scala); what will the theater lighting be like,
sound. These important components of theatrical
actions were performed in the best companies in the world (USA, Czech Republic,
France) and meet the latest advances in technology.
To date, the best theatrical equipment in
country is not.
Dear Anatoly Andreevich! I wish you great creative
success. So that, thanks to you, the spiritual life does not fade away
the temple of our city, so that all your plans come true
and plans.
Accept the wishes of health, prosperity, well-being
and faith in their own strength.
Mikhail VINOKUROV, rector of BSUEP
Anatoly Andreevich Streltsov - amazing, versatile
gifted person! He combines the qualities of a theater expert,
in the highest sense of the word, and amazingly talented
manager, confidently leading the creative team of the theater
along the difficult path of theatrical reform. Mastery connection
and experience of the masters of theatrical art with energy and innovation
young actors, deep thoughtfulness of the theater repertoire,
allowing to form the audience from all
age groups, a sober understanding of how to live theater
in a market economy - these are, in my opinion,
the most striking features characterizing the activities of the director
Irkutsk Drama Theatre.
And, of course, the inherent spirit of youth! Anatoly Andreevich
gladly meets with students of Irkutsk universities,
sensitively capturing the moods and cultural demands of modern
youth. Several interesting meetings took place with him
and with students of Baikal State University
economics and law, the result of which was the creation in BSUEP
theater studio under the direction of a young director
theater Gennady Gushchin. On the day of the anniversary of Anatoly Andreevich
I want to wish him great personal happiness, and his beloved
dramatic - wide recognition of the theatrical public
both in Russia and abroad.
Gaidar GGAIDAROV, Deputy of the Legislative Assembly,
Honored Doctor of the Russian Federation, Professor
It is difficult to say briefly about Anatoly Andreevich Streltsov.
He combines so many good qualities, and about all
I want to remember and tell. He has a huge
the power of charisma. His charismatic energy influences people.
He heals with words. People go to him with their sorrows,
for advice, and he helps them. He worries about his employees.
The theater for him is a big family, and he, like a large family
the father of a large family, worries about everyone. All joys
and troubles he shares with them. He is a very reliable person
strong, courageous and kind. He is real!
There are leaders who only care
about his own good, he thinks of himself least of all. On the
in the foreground, he always cares that the theater
was cozy, beautiful, well-groomed, so that it boiled
work so that people come to the theater and, leaving, strive
come again, so that the spirit of youth and
creativity.
I wish you good health, prosperity, inexhaustible
energy, may children and grandchildren always please you, stay
the way you are, a real person, kind
and a reliable friend, a professional of the highest standard.
Vladimir SHAGIN, Director of the Irkutsk Musical Theater
Dear Anatoly Andreevich!
I am very glad to congratulate you on another milestone in your life.
You are a role model in serving the theater.
You are a person who knows the theater firsthand and
from the side of the auditorium. You know him like no one knows
another. You must have had moments of despair when
some planned business did not work out according to your
fault. But you are always calm and confident. And thanks to your
ability to find a way out of any situation. team
Your lives, sometimes not knowing how hard it all gets.
I would like to wish you long life and life in the theater,
because I understand that your life and the life of the theater are inseparable.
I wish you that the people around you are sincere in
their relationship with you.
Good health to you!
Lyudmila KOLESNIK, director of the Irkutsk regional local history
museum
Dear Anatoly Andreevich!
I sincerely congratulate you on your anniversary!
Your love and devotion to the theater gives you a powerful creative
the impulse to be such a talented person and leader.
But on this day, I would especially like to note your human
qualities such as kindness, openness, great feeling
humor, breadth of soul inherent in people born on the Don,
as well as love for life, sincerity, splashing over the edge of energy.
Stay always the same energetic, successful, lucky
and charming man.
I wish that life brings joy, pleasure, so that
there was always a desire and an opportunity to achieve success. Let be
love, peace and harmony reign in your house. In this wonderful
day, accept sincere wishes for good health, inexhaustible
optimism, new achievements and creative success, well-being
and good mood, reliable colleagues and partners.
Sergey KOROBKOV, artistic director of the State
Theater of Nations (Moscow)
Anatoly Andreevich Streltsov - from that rare breed
theatrical people to whom the word "actor" fits
with all certainty. Streltsov - doer, creator
or, as they said in the old days about the chosen theater
people, a stage worker. Action and creation in modern
era of the Irkutsk Drama Theater are felt literally
in everything - from how they meet the viewer before the start
performance, to the choice of repertoire and comprehensive care
about the troupe. In Streltsov, this chosenness, chosenness is felt
stage servant, which, of course, in itself from nowhere
is not taken, but is formed thanks to numerous skills,
congenital and acquired, the benefit of Sagittarius never
did not hesitate to learn, observe, try, bravely seek
the most optimal and time-relevant models of existence
theater.
Streltsov is brilliantly versed in what is called
theatrical trends of the time. He's one of those heavyweights
who knows everything about the theater or almost everything. Knows how to build
the relationship of the theater with the public, what to indulge in,
and what to refuse. It looks like a kind of theatrical
sentry, although with all his respectable appearance rather
reminiscent of a European producer. He doesn't let
falsehood on the stage, forbids the momentary, never fawns
before theatrical fashion, he understands what is, what was
and will be the very purpose of the theater - to talk about a person,
about the world, about relationships that fill with content and
purposefulness of all that exists and all that is essential. From here,
probably his devotion to the dramaturgy of Vampilov, hence
same - love and worship of Russian classics, hence -
tireless concern for the viewer, coming into his
theater, left there already different - having tasted new meanings
and new emotions inhabited on the stage in the game of the strong
and interesting actors of the Irkutsk theater.
The new century has changed the balance of power in the space of the Russian
repertory theatre. More and more often the main responsible
for his status is not the director, but the director - sentry
or brownie, whatever you like to call him. Directors
come and go, looking for a better life, grow and grow,
conquer new scenes, but the director remains, and it seems
he alone remains responsible for the preservation of the theatrical
spirit in those walls, which is the owner. Not everyone
of modern directors can boast that
they succeed. In other theaters it is stormy and bad weather. BUT
here Streltsov knows how to connect different threads in his hands,
different directions and different fates of theatrical art.
Respecting creative people - directors, actors, artists,
- he, and only he, takes the main responsibility
- in front of the viewer and in front of time. Both the viewer and the time
I think they reciprocate.
Nelly MATHANOVA, writer
When I had the idea to write a play about Irkutsk
American, I met with the theater director A.A. Streltsov.
“An interesting story, write,” he supported me.
And now, worrying, I read the first version, I am waiting for strict comments
and critics, Streltsov listens carefully, then delicately
and softly says: "Maybe I'm wrong, but I guess
this scene needs to be done differently, decide for yourself. His
support inspired and helped me in my work.
The premiere was successful, articles appeared in Ogonyok and Nezavisimaya Gazeta.
newspaper." The theater was twice invited to tour
in the USA, the states of California, Oregon, Ohio, Philadelphia.
And everywhere a warm welcome, grateful American viewers,
reviews, interviews in newspapers and on TV. Photo from the performance
and the caption: “Call Meryl Streep’s agent urgently, this
a love story knows no bounds." Performance for Americans
was not only the story of their compatriot, but also a meeting
with talented actors, acquaintance with Irkutsk and Siberia.
Through the efforts of A.A. The Streltsov Theater has been restored. Now
visiting the theater itself is a holiday for the audience. Director
an excellent team has been selected, ranging from ticket collectors, workers
shops and ending with administrators. How can you not remember
words by A.P. Chekhov from a letter to Nemirovich-Danchenko: “Your
success is another proof that the audience and the actors
we need an intelligent theatre.”
Alexey KHUDYAKOV, Head of the Arts Department of the Committee for
culture of the administration of the Irkutsk region
For 19 years, Anatoly Andreevich Streltsov has been heading
one of the oldest theaters in Russia.
This theatrical ship has a wonderful captain. On the
at all levels, theatrical forums, festivals, he defends
the principles of the theater, which are close to him, are a deep faith
and devotion to the traditions of Russian realistic theater.
Streltsov did a lot for the theater and, I assure you, he will do
many more glorious and good deeds, "not sparing your life."
This is a purposeful, decisive, strong-willed person.
Despite his sometimes tough temper, people repay him with love.
and fidelity.
How many interesting tours in Russia have passed with success!
The theater boldly came out and, I think, fully entrenched
on international stages. tours in the USA,
Poland, Germany, Mongolia, Bulgaria, Ukraine, Uzbekistan
- this is an initiative, sleepless nights of the theater director.
The director dreams of many things, and God forbid that his dreams,
all good deeds come true.
Ksenia KOVALEVA, student, folk theater actress
"Youth"
Dear Anatoly Andreevich!
I had the good fortune to congratulate you on behalf of an amateur
theater "Youth" with the 55th anniversary. This event cannot be
unnoticed not only for the theatrical elite of the city of Irkutsk,
but also for the younger generation of theatergoers growing up under your
sensitive leadership.
In our indifferent time, it seems unusual that
that it is important for someone else that young people are fond of not only
drinking alcoholic beverages on the embankment, it is important to generate
and keep the love of art in young hearts in
in general and theater in particular.
The Scarlet Sails Festival, created by you, gave us
not only a week of free performances, good mood,
good songs and happy eyes, but, most importantly,
like-minded friends who are sometimes so hard to find.
I would like to wish you bright and good achievements.
goals on your creative journey! Love and happiness! And most importantly -
do not lose faith and optimism inherent in you!
* * *
Anatoly Streltsov receives a lot these days
congratulations, which all cannot be published.
The chairman joins the congratulations
Committee for Management of the Pravoberezhny District of Irkutsk
Nikolay Khitsenko,
Board of Directors of CJSC "Association" Ermak ", the staff of the Museum. Sukacheva,
artistic director of the People's Theater "Dialogue" Valentina Prosekina and many others.
