Surprisingly, many people who were cheated on by their significant other remained blind to what was happening for a long time. It even happened that they learned about their spouse’s infidelity from third parties. Why is this happening? It’s difficult to say, but too much love for a person, as well as too little attention, makes us blind. According to psychologists, there are signs that inevitably open your eyes to the real state of the relationship. Here they are.
1. The emergence of new habits
If your spouse has never had the desire to write messages, and then suddenly it has become a real habit, this is a reason to think about it. Especially when he writes them in a manner unusual for him or at an unusual time. Naturally, things like hiding correspondence or sitting on it late into the night are also suggestive.
2. Sudden interest in new music and other things
Musical taste itself may change over the years, and this is normal, but its radical change is still not without reason. It is quite suspicious if a person who has listened to chanson all his life begins to become interested in the “Greensleeves” waltz. At the same time, hobbies that are completely unusual for her or him are complemented, as a rule, by an acute reluctance to introduce a significant other to new hobbies.
3. Change of image
Usually mature adults find their own image and stick to it for years. Therefore, the fact that at the age of 40 a husband or wife decided to change radically may be a sign of betrayal. This observation works less often with women, because they need fewer compelling reasons to cut/grow/dye their hair, but still...
4. Delays at work and nest egg
Again, let’s say, in fairness, that this can be characteristic of both women and men. Excuses like “the boss detained you” are almost textbook in the ABC of betrayal. The same goes for money. But this is more on the male side, because a new passion needs something to “water, feed and dance”, right?
5. Mood swings
Now in the heat, now in the cold. Either your soulmate flies on the wings of happiness and looks serene, then it walks darker than a cloud, then it worries and twitches. Almost any cheater is familiar with the feeling of guilt that eats from the inside and makes them behave like they are on a powder keg.
6. Another person
You suddenly notice that your spouse has become a completely different person. Someone who used to keep the sofa on his back suddenly begins to be motivated and regularly disappear into the gym. Or the weekend, which was a time for two, suddenly becomes his or her private property. It's hard not to notice.
7. Stealth
This may overlap with other points, but loss of trust is much more serious than delays at work and a new haircut. Honesty is the basis of relationships. An honest person has nothing to hide and no need to lie. So here you need to act immediately in hot pursuit. It will be easier for both of you.
8. Intuition
Usually it is characteristic of ladies, but a man can also vaguely feel that “something is going wrong.” Don't completely ignore these calls. Your subconscious, your soul rarely makes mistakes, we just stopped trusting it. So listen to what is saying inside of you.
All these signs - not a direct guide to action and often you need to think three times (no, ten times) before you begin to suspect your significant other of infidelity. And even more so bring charges. It’s just that sometimes love is blind, and a person does not see what is obvious. And yet, our little friendly advice: “Take care of your families, grow love in them, take care of each other, so that the word “treason” never appears in your family vocabulary.”
These signs will inevitably open your eyes to what is happening...
Surprisingly, many people who were cheated on by their significant other remained blind to what was happening for a long time. It even happened that they learned about their spouse’s infidelity from third parties.
Why is this happening? It’s difficult to say, but too much love for a person, as well as too little attention, makes us blind. According to detectives, there are signs that inevitably open eyes to the real state of the relationship.
Here they are - 8 signs of cheaters:
1. The emergence of new habits
If your spouse has never had the desire to write messages, and then suddenly it has become a real habit, this is a reason to think about it. Especially when he writes them in a manner unusual for him or at an unusual time. Naturally, things like hiding correspondence or sitting on it late into the night are also suggestive.
2. Sudden interest in new music and other things
Musical taste itself may change over the years, and this is normal, but its radical change is still not without reason. It is quite suspicious if a person who has listened to chanson all his life begins to become interested in the “Greensleeves” waltz. At the same time, hobbies that are completely unusual for her or him are complemented, as a rule, by an acute reluctance to introduce a significant other to new hobbies.
3. Change of image
Usually mature adults find their own image and stick to it for years. Therefore, the fact that at the age of 40 a husband or wife decided to change radically may be a sign of betrayal. This observation works less often with women, because they need fewer compelling reasons to cut/grow/dye their hair, but still...
4. Delays at work and nest egg
Again, let’s say, in fairness, that this can be characteristic of both women and men. Excuses like “the boss detained you” are almost textbook in the ABC of betrayal. The same goes for money. But this is more on the male side, because a new passion needs something to “water, feed and dance”, right?
Surprisingly, many people who were cheated on by their significant other remained blind to what was happening for a long time. It even happened that they learned about their spouse’s infidelity from third parties. Why is this happening? It’s difficult to say, but too much love for a person, as well as too little attention, makes us blind. According to psychologists, there are signs that inevitably open your eyes to the real state of the relationship. Here they are.
1. The emergence of new habits
If your spouse has never had the desire to write messages, and then suddenly it has become a real habit, this is a reason to think about it. Especially when he writes them in a manner unusual for him or at an unusual time. Naturally, things like hiding correspondence or sitting on it late into the night are also suggestive.
2. Sudden interest in new music and other things
Musical taste itself may change over the years, and this is normal, but its radical change is still not without reason. It is quite suspicious if a person who has listened to chanson all his life begins to become interested in the “Greensleeves” waltz. At the same time, hobbies that are completely unusual for her or him are complemented, as a rule, by an acute reluctance to introduce a significant other to new hobbies.
3. Change of image
Usually mature adults find their own image and stick to it for years. Therefore, the fact that at the age of 40 a husband or wife decided to change radically may be a sign of betrayal. This observation works less often with women, because they need fewer compelling reasons to cut/grow/dye their hair, but still...
4. Delays at work and nest egg
Again, let’s say, in fairness, that this can be characteristic of both women and men. Excuses like “the boss detained you” are almost textbook in the ABC of betrayal. The same goes for money. But this is more on the male side, because a new passion needs something to “water, feed and dance”, right?
5. Mood swings
Now in the heat, now in the cold. Either your soulmate flies on the wings of happiness and looks serene, then it walks darker than a cloud, then it worries and twitches. Almost any cheater is familiar with the feeling of guilt that eats from the inside and makes you behave like you’re on a powder keg.
6. Another person
You suddenly notice that your spouse has become a completely different person. Someone who used to keep the sofa on his back suddenly begins to be motivated and regularly disappear into the gym. Or the weekend, which was a time for two, suddenly becomes his or her private property. It's hard not to notice.
7. Stealth
This may overlap with other points, but loss of trust is much more serious than delays at work and a new haircut. Honesty is the basis of relationships. An honest person has nothing to hide and no need to lie. So here you need to act immediately in hot pursuit. It will be easier for both of you.
8. Intuition
Usually it is characteristic of ladies, but a man can also vaguely feel that “something is going wrong.” Don't completely ignore these calls. Your subconscious, your soul rarely makes mistakes, we just stopped trusting it. So listen to what is saying inside of you.
All these signs are not a direct guide to action, and often you need to think three times (no, ten times) before you begin to suspect your soulmate of infidelity. And even more so bring charges. It’s just that sometimes love is blind, and a person does not see what is obvious. And yet, our little friendly advice: “Take care of your families, grow love in them, take care of each other, so that the word “treason” never appears in your family vocabulary.”
Surprisingly, many people who were cheated on by their significant other remained blind to what was happening for a long time. It even happened that they learned about their spouse’s infidelity from third parties. Why is this happening? It’s difficult to say, but too much love for a person, as well as too little attention, makes us blind. According to psychologists, there are signs that inevitably open your eyes to the real state of the relationship. Here they are.
1. The emergence of new habits
If your spouse has never had the desire to write messages, and then suddenly it has become a real habit, this is a reason to think about it. Especially when he writes them in a manner unusual for him or at an unusual time. Naturally, things like hiding correspondence or sitting on it late into the night are also suggestive.
2. Sudden interest in new music and other things
Musical taste itself may change over the years, and this is normal, but its radical change is still not without reason. It is quite suspicious if a person who has listened to chanson all his life begins to become interested in the “Greensleeves” waltz. At the same time, hobbies that are completely unusual for her or him are complemented, as a rule, by an acute reluctance to introduce a significant other to new hobbies.
3. Change of image
Usually mature adults find their own image and stick to it for years. Therefore, the fact that at the age of 40 a husband or wife decided to change radically may be a sign of betrayal. This observation works less often with women, because they need fewer compelling reasons to cut/grow/dye their hair, but still...
4. Delays at work and nest egg
Again, let’s say, in fairness, that this can be characteristic of both women and men. Excuses like “the boss detained you” are almost textbook in the ABC of betrayal. The same goes for money. But this is more on the male side, because a new passion needs something to “water, feed and dance”, right?
5. Mood swings
Now in the heat, now in the cold. Either your soulmate flies on the wings of happiness and looks serene, then it walks darker than a cloud, then it worries and twitches. Almost any cheater is familiar with the feeling of guilt that eats from the inside and makes you behave like you’re on a powder keg.
6. Another person
You suddenly notice that your spouse has become a completely different person. Someone who used to keep the sofa on his back suddenly begins to be motivated and regularly disappear into the gym. Or the weekend, which was a time for two, suddenly becomes his or her private property. It's hard not to notice.
7. Stealth
This may overlap with other points, but loss of trust is much more serious than delays at work and a new haircut. Honesty is the basis of relationships. An honest person has nothing to hide and no need to lie. So here you need to act immediately in hot pursuit. It will be easier for both of you.
8. Intuition
Usually it is characteristic of ladies, but a man can also vaguely feel that “something is going wrong.” Don't completely ignore these calls. Your subconscious, your soul rarely makes mistakes, we just stopped trusting it. So listen to what is saying inside of you.
All these signs - not a direct guide to action, and often you need to think three times (no, ten times) before you begin to suspect your significant other of infidelity. And even more so bring charges. It’s just that sometimes love is blind, and a person does not see what is obvious. And yet, our little friendly advice: “Take care of your families, grow love in them, take care of each other, so that the word “treason” never appears in your family vocabulary.”
