Perceptible obstacles often stand in the way of lovers: long distances, long separation, misunderstanding of relatives ... However, sometimes even very small obstacles can be insurmountable. For Alexey and Svetlana, the stumbling block was ... the most ordinary mobile phone.
PROJECT HEROES:
HISTORY OF DATING
We can say that Sveta and Lesha met twice. The first time they met at a mutual friend, they liked each other and even tried to build a relationship. Sveta arranged daily events for Lesha: cafes, restaurants, walks. As a result, on Friday, he said that tomorrow he would not go anywhere with her, but would go to his friends. They did not communicate anymore.
After about six months we met again. It was winter, a severe blizzard, and Sveta was without a car, walking down the street. Suddenly she heard the noise of an approaching car, someone called out to her. Turned around - Alexey. The turning point happened on the day when Lesha met her at the airport (Sveta flew to Israel) and brought her home.
And six months later, they set off on their first journey. During the trip, Sveta hoped that here, in Italy, Alexey would propose to her. But this happened only after a year and a half. On December 31, under the New Year tree, among other gifts, Sveta found a box with a wedding ring.
THE PROBLEM OF HEROES
Alexey's version 
I like our way of life, we solve many issues from home and thus spend more time together. But at the same time, when Sveta works, she is no longer at home. And he talks a lot on the phone. She has two of them, and if one is silent, then the second is sure to call. We have not even gone on a honeymoon yet: business does not let Svetlana go.
By the way, about the vacation. Even on trips, where we, in theory, should be provided only to each other, Sveta always receives calls. For example, we recently went to Europe, I was in the mood for rest, but Sveta again did nothing but talk on the phone and write sms. Now I have come to terms with our situation a little, but only because I do not know how to resolve it.
Svetlana's version
There are several options to resolve our problem: you can kill me, you can kill the actors, you can kill the producers, you can kill some kind of higher intelligence that creates all those problems that cause a lot of telephone conversations. All these stories, which lead to endless calls, as a rule, happen completely unexpectedly. I just can't turn off my phones and abstract myself from the whole world. Although, I confess, I am terribly ashamed that I work so much, constantly talk on the phone and communicate so little with Lesha. He says that he is used to this state of affairs, but I do not believe it. It's hard to get used to it. (Sveta's phone rings, she runs away to talk.)
PSYCHOLOGIST COMMENTARY
Olga Voronova, a family psychologist, examines the problem.
Each profession has its own specifics. The one that Sveta chose for herself requires endless telephone conversations, from which you can't get away. And Alexei understands this very well. If Sveta starts to turn off the phone after 19:00 (when most people end their working day), the agency will incur losses, and the agency's losses will immediately affect the family budget. From this point of view, fighting Sveta's telephone is like fighting a part of the family's income. How do you get back the stolen time and attention?
Let's give Sveta an assignment: during the day, count the minutes spent directly on work (organizational processes, negotiations, etc.) and on psychological consultations (intimate conversations with artists, listening to their complaints).
It is equally important to keep track of manipulation by those who just love talking "for life." For Sveta, this is a waste of energy, emotions and the very watch stolen from the family.
Well, Alexei can be advised to show patience and understanding, especially since Sveta's work has undoubted advantages - the ability to be at home, to live according to her own schedule and schedule. However, working at home is also a full-fledged job, and it requires full dedication, despite the fact that at the moment Svetlana is in the apartment, and not in the office.
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And Sergei Soldatov, telephone law actually triumphed in the Soviet administrative-command system.
According to Corresponding Member of the Russian Academy of Sciences Elena Lukasheva, as well as Honored Lawyer of the Russian Federation Mark Slavin, the administrative system was easier to manage with the help of commands, and not the rule of law. The telephone law was placed above the written law. The constitution was legally weak, and there was no legal protection of its provisions.
As a common term telephone law found in Soviet journalism and scientific periodicals ser. 80s
Among others, one can note an article in the magazine "Soviet State and Law" (No. 5 for 1988), where, on the one hand, the telephone law itself is condemned as the mutual maintenance of the "honor of the uniform" by the prosecutor's office and the judiciary, on the other hand, informal impact on the “correct, fair formal decision”.
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The young officer, with an expression of bewilderment and suffering on his face, walked away from the punished, looking inquiringly at the passing adjutant.Prince Andrew, leaving for the front line, drove along the front. Our chain and the enemy's were on the left and right flanks far from each other, but in the middle, in the place where the envoys passed in the morning, the chains came together so close that they could see each other's faces and talk among themselves. In addition to the soldiers who occupied the chain in this place, on one side and on the other there were many curious, who, laughing, looked at the strange and alien enemies.
From early in the morning, despite the prohibition to approach the chain, the chiefs could not fight off the curious. The soldiers, standing in chains, like people showing something rare, no longer looked at the French, but made their observations of those who came and, bored, waited for the change. Prince Andrew stopped to examine the French.
“Look, look,” one soldier said to a comrade, pointing to the soldier’s Russian muskater, who approached the chain with the officer and spoke often and fervently to the French grenadier. - You see, he is babbling how cleverly! Already the guardian cannot keep up with him. Come on, Sidorov!
- Wait, listen. Look, cleverly! - answered Sidorov, who was considered a master of speaking French.
The soldier pointed out by those who were laughing was Dolokhov. Prince Andrew recognized him and listened to his conversation. Dolokhov, together with his company commander, came into the chain from the left flank, on which their regiment was stationed.
- Well, more, more! - incited the company commander, bending forward and trying not to utter a single word incomprehensible to him. - More often, please. What he?
Dolokhov did not answer the company commander; he was involved in a heated argument with a French grenadier. They talked, as they should have been, about the campaign. The Frenchman argued, mixing the Austrians with the Russians, that the Russians had surrendered and fled from Ulm itself; Dolokhov argued that the Russians did not surrender, but beat the French.
“Here they tell you to drive you out and drive you out,” Dolokhov said.
“Just try not to be taken away with all your Cossacks,” said the French grenadier.
The French audience and listeners laughed.
- You will be forced to dance, as you danced under Suvorov (on vous fera danser [you will be forced to dance]), - said Dolokhov.
- Qu "est ce qu" il chante? [What is he singing there?] - said one Frenchman.
- De l "histoire ancienne, [Ancient history,] - said another, guessing that it was about previous wars. - L" Empereur va lui faire voir a votre Souvara, comme aux autres ... [The Emperor will show your Suvara, like others ...]
“Bonaparte…” Dolokhov began, but the Frenchman interrupted him.
- No Bonaparte. There is an emperor! Sacre nom ... [Damn it ...] he shouted angrily.
- Damn it, take your emperor!
And Dolokhov swore in Russian, roughly, in a soldier's manner, and, throwing up his gun, walked away.
“Come on, Ivan Lukich,” he said to the company commander.
“That's the way it’s French,” said the soldiers in chains. - Come on, Sidorov!
Sidorov winked and, addressing the French, began often, often babbling incomprehensible words:
“Kari, mala, tafa, safi, muter, helmet,” he muttered, trying to give expressive intonations to his voice.
- Go Go go! ha ha ha ha ha! Wow! Wow! - there was a roar of such healthy and cheerful laughter between the soldiers, which involuntarily communicated to the French through the chain, that after that it seemed necessary to unload the guns, detonate the charges and disperse as soon as possible for everyone to go home.
But the guns remained loaded, the loopholes in the houses and fortifications looked ahead just as menacingly and, just as before, facing each other remained, removed from the front of the cannon.
Having traveled around the entire line of troops from the right to the left flank, Prince Andrey climbed to the battery from which, according to the officer's headquarters, the entire field was visible. Here he dismounted and stopped at the outermost of the four guns removed from the limbs. Ahead of the guns walked a sentry artilleryman, who was stretched out in front of the officer, but at a sign made to him, resumed his uniform, dull walk. Behind the guns were the limbs, and behind the hitching posts and the fires of the gunners. To the left, not far from the end gun, was a new wicker hut, from which the animated officers' voices could be heard.
Indeed, from the battery, a view of almost the entire disposition of the Russian troops and most of the enemy was revealed. Directly opposite the battery, on the horizon of the opposite hillock, was the village of Shengraben; to the left and to the right could be discerned in three places, among the smoke of their fires, the masses of French troops, of which, obviously, most of them were in the village itself and beyond the mountain. To the left of the village, in the smoke, it looked like something similar to a battery, but it was impossible to see it well with the naked eye. Our right flank was located on a rather steep hill, which dominated the position of the French. Our infantry was located along it, and dragoons were visible at the very edge. In the center, where the Tushin battery was located, from which Prince Andrey was examining the position, there was the most gentle and straight descent and ascent to the stream that separated us from Schengraben. To the left, our troops adjoined the forest, where the fires of our infantry, chopping wood, were smoking. The French line was wider than ours, and it was clear that the French could easily bypass us on both sides. Behind our position was a steep and deep ravine, along which it was difficult for artillery and cavalry to retreat. Prince Andrey, leaning on the cannon and taking out his wallet, drew for himself a plan for the disposition of the troops. In two places he put notes in pencil, intending to communicate them to Bagration. He assumed, firstly, to concentrate all the artillery in the center and, secondly, to transfer the cavalry back to the other side of the ravine. Prince Andrew, constantly being with the commander-in-chief, watching the movements of the masses and general orders and constantly engaging in historical descriptions of battles, and in this upcoming matter, he involuntarily understood the future course of hostilities only in general terms. He imagined only the following kind of major accidents: “If the enemy leads an attack on the right flank,” he said to himself, “the Kiev grenadier and Podolsk jaeger will have to hold their position until the reserves of the center come up to them. In this case, the dragoons can attack the flank and overturn them. In the event of an attack on the center, we set up a central battery on this hill and, under its cover, pull together the left flank and retreat to the ravine in echelons, "he reasoned with himself ...
