What does the world know about vaginas? Very little, society seems to pretend that under women's panties there is nothing at all, like a doll.
Even porn and erotic magazines show a vanilla picture that differs from reality in the same way that silicone breasts differ from natural ones. Millions of girls are complex because of the "wrong" structure of their labia and even go under the surgeon's knife to correct their imaginary shortcomings.
An Elite Daily reporter spoke with a former waxing master who has seen hundreds of vaginas in her professional career. It turned out that there are 5 main types of female labia, which in turn are divided into an infinite number of varieties, each of which is the norm.
1. "Barbie"
This is how most people imagine a vagina, but ironically, this type is the rarest.
In a Barbie, the inner labia are located entirely within the outer labia. Both are at the same level with the pelvic bone.
2. "Curtain"
In this type, the labia minora are located below the labia majora. Depending on the structure of the girl, they can bulge strongly or very slightly.
This is probably the most common type of vagina, often found in a wide variety of combinations with the other types described below.
3. "Pie"
"Pie" may very much resemble "Barbie", but the difference is that the "Pie" has the labia located below the pubic bone. They can be either firm and full, or thin and a little flabby. Many people think that it depends on the age of the woman, but it is not.
4. "Horseshoe"
At the Horseshoe, the opening of the vagina is wider and higher, thereby exposing the labia minora, but just below the labia majora seem to narrow. In this type, the labia minora do not drop below the labia majora.
5. "Tulip"
This type of vagina is shaped like a flower, ready to bloom. In this case, the labia minora are slightly exposed along their entire length. Unlike the "Curtain", in which the inner labia hang down, in "Tulne" they are on the same level with the outer ones.
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Here's another topic for female complexes: I have HORSE labia. I was looking there, I was looking here, I asked my girlfriends - everyone is fine, I have one - BAD !!! What to do, what to do.
And then, I remember, there was a letter: I am 15 years old, probably soon there will be a boy, and my left labia is 4 millimeters longer than the right. I'm afraid he won't like him ... What to do, what to do.
I replied that you shouldn't let the boy with the ruler in your hands - and everything will be all right. By the way, this is advice to all the other girls-girls-women, who are prevented from sleeping by anxiety: what if ...
In fact, the structure of the genitals is a congenital phenomenon. It is simply impossible to correct, increase, decrease something in them - except perhaps by surgery. By the way, plastic surgeons, without sitting down, work day after day on the labia - the flow of women is not interrupted for a minute. But more on that later.
The labia majora cover the small ones, they cover the front of the vulva and urethra, just below the entrance to the vagina; everything is so simple, anatomically expedient.
And, just like any other expedient for life, but in manifestations, a diverse structure of the human body - nose, mouth, eyes, ears, chest, thickness of shoulders and forearms, length of fingers and width of palms, width of hips and girth of waist, hips, feet and so on - EVERYTHING that makes up the human body can be a source of incredible suffering, envy of others, painful attempts to hide "this ugliness" or change it.
Among men looking to lengthen their penis, 94% are of average size. Among women who want to change the size of their breasts, half want to increase the size, and half - to reduce the size. Among women who want to "comb" their labia, no more than 3% NEED an operation. In need - this means that the labia have anatomical defects that interfere with the normal function of the vulva and vagina.
Psychology, ladies and gentlemen, is a terrible thing. Information is even more terrifying. But together they can crush cities and countries, states and planets. I learned something, tried it on for myself - and I UNDERSTOOD that everything was awful for me ... And the catavasia started: I urgently need to remake, I want to be AS EVERYONE or even better than everyone else, no one will love me now, they will laugh at me, etc. etc., etc. But the explanation is simple: character anxiety, self-doubt, inability to communicate.
But back to anatomy. And at the same time to psychology.
So, the big lips cover the small ones, everything is neat, smoothed. Isn't it beautiful?
Another variant. The large lips almost close over the small ones, but they look outward, like the petals of an opening rose. Isn't it beautiful?
Third case. Small lips confidently push apart large ones, symbolizing mature femininity. Isn't it beautiful?
And one more. The small lips cover the large lips, creating a single entrance to the sacred cave, which gives pleasure and brings heirs. Isn't it beautiful?
What am I making "really beautiful"? Yes, the fact that all these are options for women who are confident in themselves. Insecure can replace "beautiful" with "awful" - and they will be right too. For yourself, for your character and your construction of life.
And men have their own truth. For them, any vulva is a promise of pleasure, and the requirements for registration of the entrance to paradise are a minimum. They do not consider this wealth, even during cunnilingus they do not explore too much (remember, “you can't see a face to face, you can see a lot from a distance”?), They don't care. And if suddenly your partner says “why is it so ugly there?”, Make it so that he disappears forever from your life.
The body is the only thing you really have. The body must be loved, taken care of, not strained, not cut without a threat to life itself. There is no single beauty, there is no world standard, you are on your own, you are individual and unique. And all that you have is decorating you.
Live like that.
P.S. By the way, you can look at yourself in the mirror and breathe "... how wonderful it is, how beautiful I am ..."
Currently, women pay a lot of attention to their body, and especially to the intimate area. Finding flabby labia, many panic and throw all their strength into eliminating the problem.
They even care less about the condition of their hair or skin than the area covered by underwear. Paradox. Nevertheless, we will try to figure out why such a change in tissues occurs and we will find out how to help a woman restore beauty to her labia.
Usually, the deformity is resolved with surgery. There are also such representatives of the fair sex for whom a ledge even by 1 cm seems terrible. And this is already a question of accepting your body.
It should be understood that labia hypertrophy is not a disease. This is just an anatomical feature of the body. If the defect interferes, then you need to think about its elimination.
Usually, medical attention is needed when trauma occurs with underwear or hygiene products (pads), when sex and physical activity become impossible.
Aesthetics are impaired if the labia are loose and wrinkled. In this case, the folds are uneven and the difference in length is noticeable. It is this condition of the external genital organs that most often worries women. Before agreeing to plastic surgery, it is necessary to understand the causes of the deformity. After all, any surgical intervention is stress for the body.
Women want to return the former beauty to the intimate area so that they can wear erotic underwear of miniature sizes and sunbathe on the beach without looking back, visit the pool.
In this case, correction is indispensable, even though there is no harm to health. When hypertrophy becomes a hindrance to normal sexual life, then the help of a psychotherapist is first of all needed. It is possible that a woman will be able to accept her body without using a surgical method.
Stages
Flabby labia have their own classification:
- The labia minora do not cause much discomfort, since they protrude only 2 cm.
- The lips protrude 4 cm. In this version, the skin folds sag quite noticeably, so a woman can feel them when walking, while riding a bicycle. Going to the gynecologist will also give you unpleasant sensations.
- With an increase in the labia minora by 6 centimeters or more, noticeable irritation appears when moving.
There are several signs that allow you to go to surgical manipulation if the labia are loose and saggy. Here they are:
- the form has changed so much that sexual life becomes impossible;
- deformation interferes with hygiene procedures;
- the skin of the labia turns blue due to circulatory disorders.
Causes
Causes of hypertrophy of the labia minora:
- Menopause. The problem arises in the climacteric period, since hormonal changes are taking place in the body and the skin is no longer as elastic as it used to be. Flabby and uneven areas appear due to a lack of estrogen.
- Weight loss. If the extra pounds are gone very quickly, then the body does not have time to adjust.
- Childbirth. During the birth of a baby, the skin is stretched and may deform.
- Aggressive sex. With prolonged and rather abrupt sexual contact, the external organs can be stretched.
- Injuries. The skin can be enlarged due to cuts or blows to the perineal area. After healing, the appearance does not change for the better.
- Piercing. Various elements of the piercing make the labia heavier and tighten.
- Inflammation. With such pathologies, in addition to deformation, the skin acquires a bluish tint.
- Heredity. If you ask close relatives in more detail, have they thought about how to make the labia elastic, then in response you can even get some advice. In this case, your guess is correct. Often, the first symptoms of deformity will appear either during adolescence or after the onset of sexual activity.
- Hormonal imbalance. Changes in the labia can occur when there is a shift in the body towards male hormones.
Very rarely, young girls suffer from such a problem. Even if they have some changes, they are almost invisible. If we talk about babies, then even they have hypertrophied labia due to prematurity or some pathology that began even inside the womb.
Correction
Stretched and flabby labia are corrected only surgically, as mentioned above. The procedure is called labiaplasty. Many women have experienced its positive effects.
Labioplasty is relatively safe, but before going for surgery, it is necessary to study the contraindications:
- inflammation affecting the genital area;
- oncological diseases;
- infectious diseases;
- mental pathologies;
- pregnancy;
- age up to 18 years.
The presence of at least one contraindication suggests that labioplasty is prohibited.
Before the procedure, it is imperative to be examined. A woman takes blood tests, including laboratory tests to determine the presence of sexually transmitted diseases, hepatitis and HIV. Also, the gynecologist takes a smear on the flora, since the intervention, although external, but the internal genital organs will also be affected to some extent.
It is imperative to epilate before surgery. If the labia are loose, this can cause some difficulty. If desired, the doctor can photograph the intimate area so that the patient can then compare the result with what was before the intervention.
Local anesthesia serves as anesthesia during the operation. In addition, the woman is injected with a mild sedative.
The operation takes about 60 minutes or less in duration. The woman lies on her back with her legs spread and fixed. Everything happens quite simply. Excess areas are treated with an antiseptic solution and cut off. Then stitches are applied, the threads of which will dissolve by themselves.
Effects
Any intervention will cause pain. You need to endure them. It will be especially difficult in the early days. When urinating, severe cramps appear when urine enters the wound.
After about a week, the discomfort is less pronounced and the woman does not feel pain. After a month, if no infection has joined, you can live sex life again. But it is better to do this after the permission of the attending physician. They do the same with sports.
If flabby labia are a thing of the past, then you shouldn't relax right away. Sometimes there are complications: scars and scars, bluish skin tone. It also happens that the sensitivity of the small lips decreases, so caressing during sex does not give pleasure.
Labioplasty, like any other operation, reduces local immunity, therefore, inflammatory reactions are not excluded. Statistics report that the complication rate is only 10%. The remaining 90% are happy that they decided to have an operation.
With age, not only the woman's face and body change, but also her genitals. Unfortunately, over the years, the skin loses its elasticity and firmness and inevitably begins to sag, but if a lot of cosmetic procedures were invented to maintain a youthful face, then the female genital organs were deprived of the attention of many specialists in aesthetic medicine. But as practice shows, women are very upset by the external changes that occur to their vulva and vagina during their life.
Certain changes can be noticed already from the age of twenty. Sagging of the skin in the pubic area and labia is possible, in particular, due to a sharp loss of weight - just as it happens, for example, in the chest area. In this case, strains are formed inside the vagina, and with age, the pelvic muscles also weaken. All this leads to significant discomfort and can cause self-doubt and sexual dissatisfaction, because, as studies show, women with similar problems feel constrained in bed and do not experience satisfaction from their sex life.
However, today aesthetic medicine still came to the aid of the fair sex, and procedures for rejuvenating the genitals are becoming more and more popular. But plastic surgery can be avoided altogether by adhering to the simple rules described below.
Avoid sudden weight fluctuations
If you lose weight dramatically, your vulva can sag. To maintain the beauty and youth of the genitals, the weight should always remain normal, because too thin women may have no less problems than overweight women. A woman's vulva can be compared to her face - she can look younger and older than her age, and her appearance largely depends on whether her weight is normal.
Do Kegel exercises
Kegel exercises for strengthening the vaginal muscles are very popular, but even if you do them regularly, can you be sure that you are following all the rules?
Many women do not exercise long enough or regularly. Correct technique assumes that the muscles of the vagina and small pelvis need to be squeezed for 5 seconds, then relaxed. The number of repetitions should be at least one hundred, while the exercises will be effective if done three times a day. Exercising can even be enjoyable if you use your partner's penis instead of a machine.
Get rid of your office chair
Using a Swiss ball for at least fifteen minutes a day instead of your regular office chair will provide extra workout for your vaginal muscles. The pelvic muscles will contract on their own, and you can always keep them in good shape without much effort.
Limit cycling
Cycling is a pleasant pastime for many women, but you should be aware that the constant rubbing of the perineum against the seat can stretch the skin in that area. Women with large labia should be especially careful.
Don't overdo hygiene
Soaps that promote dry skin, all kinds of scrubs and other hygiene products are not at all suitable for the delicate and sensitive skin of the genitals and often lead to irritation. Regular hygiene is, of course, very important, but it must be performed with the help of special, non-aggressive means.
Be sexually active
The tissues and muscles in the perineum are especially prone to age-related changes if they do not receive regular stimulation and blood flow. Normal blood flow ensures sufficient lubrication is released and helps a woman achieve orgasm, which unfortunately becomes increasingly rare with age.
Also, you should keep in mind that male sperm also has a rejuvenating effect, due to the content of certain hormones and fatty acids in it.
Change position
The missionary position, of course, is considered one of the most popular, but the fact is that when your partner independently regulates the depth of penetration and intensity of movement, he may not calculate and involuntarily cause you discomfort and stretch the muscles of the perineum. If you are on top, you will be in control of the situation yourself, and you will also be able to train the muscles of the vagina by squeezing your partner's penis.
