© Kovalev S.V., 2016
© AST Publishing House LLC, 2016
* * *
About this book
This book tells about how and with the help of what methods and psychotechnologies any person can find a happy destiny and program himself for perfection and luck. The author of the book is a well-known psychologist, psychotherapist of the highest qualifications, recognized both in Russia and around the world, one of the leaders of domestic and world neurolinguistic programming, the creator of a new and officially recognized direction of counseling and psychotherapy - the Eastern version of neuroprogramming, as well as the latest method management of internal and external reality- neurotransforming.
The book presents an extremely interesting stuff and given system description many psychotechnologies of neuroprogramming with extensive and accessible comments by the author.
The book is intended for specialists in the field practical psychology, psychocorrection, psychotherapy, counseling and coaching, as well as for a wide range of readers who want to change themselves and their lives for the better.
Instead of a preface
K. Morley
Tell me, are you happy with your lot? By the way your own life activity has developed and is developing? What have you already received from life, and what else do you hope to get?
If so, please put this book on the shelf. It is not for you and not about you. After all, a person who is completely satisfied with everything that is and will be can relate only to one of two psychological types, namely: he is either a sage, or, excuse me, on the contrary (according to Confucius, only the wisest and most stupid do not change and do not strive for change).
In the first case, I simply have nothing to tell you, because everything that is described in this book, you have long understood, and not with your mind, but with your heart. And they became a true and sovereign master of their lives.
In the second case, talking about fate and its reprogramming is simply not worth it - and not even by virtue of famous saying about beads and those in front of whom it does not need to be thrown, but due to the uselessness and meaninglessness of this whole activity. Why talk about the possibilities of changing your life to a person who simply does not want to change it?
However, I hope this is not the case. And you belong to that “silent majority”, which is dissatisfied with its fate and seriously thinks about its alteration. If so, consider that you are lucky and you have found what you are looking for and what you want: a book that will allow you to get rid of the diktat of not too much programmed in your psyche. good luck and find true freedom - the freedom to live the life you really want to live ...
This opus is based on some very simple thoughts.
The fate of a person is quite the real thing, having first and foremost psychological character.
It is written not so much on some divine tablets as in your own brain in the form of a set of programs of the unconscious part of the psyche.
Since all these "fateful" programs are unconscious formations, which means that they do not lend themselves to conscious management and control, we really cannot get away from our own, but not always our own programmed destiny.
And our life really turns out to be conditioned and predetermined - but in most cases it is far from the best way.
The only way to change this very “fateful predetermination”, which we do not like so much, is to reprogram our own unconscious, that is, to change all those programs that determine the direction, course and course of our life.
Modern psychotechnologies, primarily and most of all based on neuroprogramming - a kind of forerunner of neuroscience of the third millennium - make it possible to carry out such self-reprogramming quickly, easily and relatively painlessly.
And all this is within your power. And you can do all this. If, of course, you want to. Tell me, do you really want this? If so, just turn the page - now. And start your journey for new life and fate ...
Key ideas and premises
The fountain of success must strike in ourselves; the one who is so ignorant of human nature that he seeks happiness, changing everything except himself, will spend his life on fruitless efforts and multiply the troubles from which he seeks to get rid of.
S. Johnson
Once a slave in panic ran to his master and began to beg to let him go to Samarra, one of the neighboring cities. To a reasonable question about the reason for such haste, the frightened slave replied that he had recently met Death at the bazaar, who looked at him meaningfully and threatened him with a finger. And that he wants to hide, hide, run away from her to Samarra, where, if he leaves today, it will be tomorrow. The master took pity on the slave and gave him a horse to leave. And a little later, purely by chance, I met Death somewhere on the street, hurrying about his business, and found the courage to ask:
- Why did you scare my slave so?
- Scared? - Death was surprised. - I just reminded that tomorrow I am waiting for him in Samarra ...
This and similar parables serve as an excellent illustration of the ancient truth: you cannot escape fate. Tell me, have you ever wondered why? After all, we humans seem to be endowed with free will. And we have every opportunity to build our life and destiny the way we want.
But for some reason, all the time, it does not work out the way you want (according to your needs). And it does not even work out as it can (according to possibilities), which makes many people take to heart the widespread Marxist maxims about the omnipotence of circumstances, which, they say, do not allow us to live the way we would like. However, in all honesty, any of us, especially if he at the same time has to swear to something holy, will agree with André Maurois, who once said that any person in just one day is given at least seven opportunities to change his life ... And with Ilya Selvinsky, who bitterly complained that, they say, every life, whatever it is, is a world of missed opportunities ...
However, in reality, over and over again we pass by a host of opportunities that could make our lives more efficient and happier. And we begin to sincerely believe that, after all, she is - the very fate that you cannot escape. But then the next, already really interesting question arises: where and how is it recorded? A question that secretly implies another: is it possible to rewrite your destiny? Let's try to understand these issues from a purely psychological (in broad sense of this word) point of view.
Once upon a time I met a phrase that literally sunk into my soul and, apparently, became one of the reasons for the appearance of this book (what a pity that I do not remember her - the phrase - of the author):
You can't escape fate. Because your destiny is in you. And you cannot get away from yourself ...
And I was eighteen, and then I was studying at the Faculty of Psychology of Moscow State University. And was interested in everything that could help me take place - i.e. make your own destiny worthy outstanding representative biological species Homo sapiens, which I considered myself then (and I still consider myself - but already reasonably).
I remember well how I rushed to answer the question, what in myself (the rest of me then practically did not interest me) determines my own life and fate. First, to the teachers, who, after listening to my inspired speech, quickly extinguished my ardor, saying that in materialistic psychology the question of the determination of human behavior and activity is considered from the point of view of the concept of social conditioning, revealed in the works of the classics of Marxism-Leninism, and fate as such is the concept is idealistic and therefore is not seriously considered. And then - to books, the content of which went far beyond the academic course of psychological disciplines (for example, it was then that I learned about "essentially bourgeois" transpersonal psychology, which recognized and proved the possibility of the existence of human consciousness outside of its material carrier - the brain). However, I did not find the answer at that time. And, disappointed, he tried to forget the question itself, for which he gladly plunged into the element of student freemen. And after two decades, having experienced during this time and falls, and ups, and shame, and fame, and poverty, and prosperity, and somehow comprehending my life according to my mood, I suddenly realized with illumination that it developed exactly the same way as It should have taken shape, albeit perhaps not in the most successful way, that through the seeming chaos of events and circumstances of past life, some leitmotif of my own fate runs like a red thread. As if someone or something, in spite of external obstacles and my internal resistance, stubbornly pushed (o) me into the right direction, moving towards some mysterious goals and meanings. Despite everything and even not paying much attention to my own desires... So, "sliding and falling and rising again" (Maeterlink), taking three steps forward and only two steps back (although I could have done four), I still walked towards something intended for me, and only for me. On the road prepared for me alone. And then I again returned to the question of which psychological mechanisms determines the life and fate of a person, and even seems to have found an answer or, more precisely, answers. And he created the Eastern version of neuroprogramming (VVN) - a science that allows you to take the reins of control of your life and destiny into your own hands.
Now I will try to outline some of the most important provisions of this very BBH, which you need to understand this book and safely program your new destiny. Don't worry - there won't be many of these provisions, but all of them are very interesting.
Let's start, as it should be, "from the stove", which will be the following very simple and, in my opinion, almost indisputable position. That the main sign of a successful destiny should be, of course, success. But the main criterion of this (success) in all centuries and times was, is and, it seems, will be human well-being as an achievement by him of a satisfying (again, his personally) standard of living. Exactly so: satisfying, because, as you know, some caviar is not salty, while others the porridge is not sweet.
Just don't need here your platitudes like sex, power, status and money (or the so-called "three T": "rags, cars, heifers" - in general, continuous "consumerism" ...): something, but this good my usual clients (and as a world-class psychotherapist I ask very, very dearly for my services, so clients are mostly rich ...) are abundant. But here comes a kind of packed man from head to toe in a Brabus Mercedes, and after ten minutes of work, having lost all his usual arrogance, he begins to sadly tell how unhappy he is internally - with all his undoubted external well-being.
So, a long time ago (but in this Galaxy) the Eastern version of neuroprogramming, and then neurotransforming, was based on the following basic definition:
Well-being = Efficiency + Happiness
What is simple and so accurate that you don't even want to argue? Indeed, if you think about this formula properly from the point of view of a criterion as a sufficient and necessary condition, it turns out even more interesting. After all, efficiency (in business, money, relationships, etc.) then becomes only a necessary condition for this very well-being. But happiness is a sufficient condition (well, very sufficient ...).
Let's go, however, further, since I deliberately reduced the volume of this fragment - taking into account the fact that the population of our country is rapidly losing the ability to read long enough (and clever!) Texts. So, if we disassemble human well-being into its components, it turns out that there are only five of them - basic and basic, which is why in the Eastern version of neuroprogramming there is a so-called "Star of well-being" .
Rice. 1
In this star, everything, it seems to me, is understandable without words - with the exception of only health, which has to be (everything else is possible, but not necessary, but this has to be) subdivided into:
Spiritual (a sense of the correctness and need for one's own life)
Psychological (when this very life "does not sway") and
Physical (when the aforementioned part of health simply does not bother you).
And one more point, which you must remember as "Our Father": that human well-being is a complex phenomenon, and if you are happy in one area (and how happy you are, but only in one), but not too well in others, you are unsuccessful generally!!!
And my same clients - businessmen and even oligarchs, very, very prosperous in the sphere of money, complain in unison about the "bastard" work ("from morning to evening like a squirrel in a wheel!"), Lost health (spiritual - because "there is no point in living ", Psychological - since there are only anxieties and" depressed ", and physical - because, despite super-paid doctors (or grabber?)," The body is "dying" well, right before our eyes "), completely spoiled relationships (" all around enemies and bastards "), little satisfying sex (" no, with "Viagra" I can, but still no high ") and almost completely absent love (" What are you talking about? Yes, they all want from me only one thing - my money! ").
Now let's figure out where this very human well-being "lives". What, do you really still think outside? Well, I'm just sorry for you! Have you really not bothered to understand, at least, the principle "from the inside - out", according to which everything that is created by man in this world, was first created inside it (in the form, for example, of an idea, diagram and / or drawing) and only then outside (in the form of, for example, a product or a sample). And which in the Eastern version of neuroprogramming and neurotransforming was completely different, but in essence it seems to be implemented in the so-called "The law of embodiment" .
According to this law, you have in your life only what you already have in your own head. For example, if you don’t have an idea of a computer in your head, you not only don’t buy it, but you simply don’t recognize it when you meet, at best you will mistake it for some strange TV model (and then only if this the TV itself is present). And if so, then well-being as such always goes from the inside out and lives not outside, but inside you - in the form of perfection and luck. And from the point of view of psychology, it is described by the following formula created in the Eastern version of neuroprogramming and neurotransforming:
Well-being = Perfection Luckiness
That's right - to multiply. And when I, purely by chance, but in a very pleasant place - in one of the best (I will not say which) hotels in Sharm El Sheikh - was "illuminated" with this formula, I literally did not sleep all night, finally realizing what had happened and it happens: with me, with others and with the country.
To make it dawning on you too, let's start with the latter - from the country, or rather, countries. So, if we accept (for now) that perfection of a person is a certain function of his education and abilities, and luck is directly realized in the ability to achieve goals with a minimum of effort(we will accept these definitions as working) and that both the first and the second can be assessed on a ten-point scale (min = 0; max = 10), then when comparing two such constantly competing countries as Russia and America (USA), in which the latter clearly wins , you get the following.
Russia was originally (now, alas, it is no longer so) a very perfect country (remember the most reading nation in the world, our general average and general higher education and other things that we inherited from the stagnant, but, in some aspects, very good USSR). And let now we can no longer give her a solid "top ten" for this perfection (if people read today, then signs and annotations to what they buy, but about a decent education in the conditions of the Unified State Exam, coursework and diplomas downloaded from the Internet, and there is also no need to say the results of tests and exams, which are quite easily bought up at the root), there is still some groundwork and we still deserve seven points.
However, we are a marvelously unlucky country, and this failure did not come at all with the Bolsheviks or the new Russians (although it was still aggravated by them), but was originally inherent in the long-suffering Russian Empire... After a while you will understand why this is so, but for now I can only complain that no - well, no, and that's all - I have a place to give truly egregious, fantastic in stupidity and absurdity examples of this failure (or maybe , is that good?). So on luck we deserve no more than one point, which results in the following:
Well-being of Russia = 7 1 = 7%
(I remind you that 10 10 gives 100% well-being).
Unlike us, the United States does not at all shine with at least some kind of perfection (which is just the fact that Americans study fractions almost in the highest grades), and if they keep in line and on the core of scientific and technological progress, so only for account of migrants (from the same Russia, China and India). As a result, she can be given no more than a “four” for perfection (let me remind you: on a ten-point system). However, this is such an annoying, rather stupid and nevertheless very attractive country for many, well, just fantastically lucky - by all ten points! Which results in the following:
Well-being of the USA = 4 10 = 40%.
Well, is it clear now? Understandably, as with efficiency and happiness, excellence is at its best. necessary condition well-being, while luck is a sufficient condition? It is clear that if we talk not about countries, but about those very aforementioned others, it is precisely because of the difference, as mathematicians say, between perfection and luck that highly educated highly educated, honorably carrying spiritual traditions, but completely unlucky old Russians are so unsuccessful - and so prosperous. Not representing anything, but very successful new Russians?
And if, so to speak, to become personal (more precisely, to myself as a person), you understand that if I personally did not shine with well-being before and only in last years correcting my own psychological situation, literally flew like a rocket into my health, a satisfying relationship, lovely love and harmonious sex, as well as in absolutely satisfying work, which, moreover, it was then that began to bring well, very decent money, then all this happened precisely because of the gap between my abilities and education, high and absolutely universally recognized, and luck, which is still ten years was very low ago?
It remains to add that it was in connection with all of the above that I defined the Eastern version of neuroprogramming as the science of human well-being - efficiency and happiness arising from perfection and luck, - which is given and created by the dynamics and structure of human experience.
Let's take a look at perfection and luck, as it is customary to say even within the walls. State Duma, "In kind and concretely." Actually, if you carefully read the previous text, you probably already understood that perfection is the very dynamic aspect of human experience, wholly and completely based on life programs... So, for example, you, trying to be more perfect, and therefore more effective (and therefore, prosperous), spend a lot of energy on acquiring additional programs type of work on a computer, English or the notorious MBA. However, all these programs are built on the unshakable foundation of your reality maps, which determine first your luck, and then your happiness. And if the card is initially bad, the program built on it will never be good.
Perhaps it's time to explain what these are - reality maps. Imagine two twins who, having barely learned to walk, decided to get to know such a "fragment of reality" as dogs. Since this was really their first acquaintance, both did not have any maps about the aforementioned animals. Due to some circumstances, they went to get acquainted with the dogs (more precisely, with their glorious representative who lived in the yard) in different time... And the first twin spanked her when this dog was in deep euphoria about a hearty dinner he had just eaten, so she willingly substituted her pink belly and even just allowed to play with her. As a result, in the section "dog" in the cards of this twin, "cute, kind, affectionate and fluffy" was written almost forever.
The second baby was unlucky - he approached the dog at the moment when she either gnawed a particularly tasty bone, or was simply unhappy with something, which made her growl, or even barked at the child and even tried to bite him. As a result, in the system of his cards in the section “dogs” there appeared (again, almost forever!) The entry “scary, angry, growling and biting”.
Anton/ 20.01.2019 Who cares, there is audio and video recording of seminars [email protected]
Paul/ 12.01.2019 An excellent author, he likes everything. Passed all the seminars. I keep and practice in the records. Write to mail [email protected] yandex
mikafos @ yandex ru
Andrey/ 20.10.2018 Who cares, there are audio and video recordings of the following seminars by S. V. Kovalev:
Kovalev - An Introduction to Wellbeing, Efficiency and Happiness
Kovalev - Introduction to another life
Kovalev - Relationships
Integration of mastery. Reality control modules
Kovalev - Integration of ego states
Kovalev - Advising on the implementation of the plan. Models and modules for implementing intentions
Kovalev - Modules of psychosemantic psychotherapy of acute (crisis) states
Kovalev - Module for the development of superpowers and improvement of oneself and others
Guiding and using trances
Kovalev | Integration of mastery. Work modulo S.V. Kovaleva
Kovalev | The Basics of Counseling, or An Introduction to Human Well-being
Kovalev | Introduction to psychocorrection and psychotherapy
Kovalev Sergey - Symboldrama
Kovalev Sergey - Psychotherapy of social panorama
Kovalev Sergey - Psychotherapy of life scenarios
Kovalev Sergey - Psychogenetic, transgenerational psychotherapy. Dealing with Ancestor Syndrome
Kovalev Sergey- Neurotransforming of Love Relationships
Kovalev Sergey - Money
Kovalev Sergey - Working with parts
Kovalev Sergey - Psychotherapy Standalone Units Consciousness: Special psychotechnology
Kovalev Sergey - Productive dialogue with the unconscious
Kovalev Sergey - Introduction to psychocorrection and psychotherapy
Contact: [email protected]
Veronica/ 8.10.2018 The author is gorgeous !!! He integrated all the cool psychotechnologies into the system, invented a really working methodology, is constantly improving and helps all his students to grow! But just reading will not help the reader, you have to deal with yourself. Thank you Sergey Viktorovich for the titanic work.
Helena/ 22.02.2018 To the comment "vlad / 26.12.2015
there are negative reviews here, I do not agree with everyone, because I apologize for being straightforward to crap any person. I watched his video on YouTube about the swinish attitude of parents towards children with which I absolutely agree. it can be seen at every step in real life, I want to tell the authors of negative reviews do not fuck ... brains for yourself and people, the author has worked hard and offers the best, if you want to take knowledge, if you don't want to pass by don't create a stink "-
Your parents did not force you to study much - start not with psychology, but with the Russian language. After all, it is simply indecent to write so illiterately.
Marina/ 8.04.2017 I am very grateful to the author for his competent and simple explanation of life programs and the opportunity to work on increasing my self-awareness. Thank you, Sergey Viktorovich!
Tatiana/ 6.04.2017 I love this person !!! Everything he says, the way he says it is just cool! I am grateful to myself for my curiosity, thanks to her I know about this author, and I have the opportunity to listen, read, learn, change.
the guest/ 12/18/2016 The whole problem is that you cannot create a "correct" image of yourself being in a "wrong" state. From a wrong state you can only program a wrong image of yourself and the circle will close. And people on every corner seem to encounter this and cannot understand why all these miracles of technology do not work for them. In fact, a person who is in a "correct" state and already has no special need to use any techniques, everything goes on as usual. And is self-hypnosis alone enough to achieve certain results, I think the answer obvious
Evgeniy/ 12/17/2016 The author has badly deteriorated. In general, even before that, there were only show-off in his books, allegedly with a hint that you will come to the seminar, I will tell you more there. But now even some of his disciples have turned their backs on him. Arrogant - arrogant.
Andrey/ 16.12.2016 Funny flatterer, simple as a fellow.
Business is business, I understand.)))
Wadi/ 13.12.2016 It all comes down to creating good image yourself and remove the bad one and a lot of books have been written about this, and the whole point is in what I said. But nowhere is it written why it works. For what reason. You better tell me why it works and where it comes from, and then I I'll figure it out myself somehow
Ruslan/ 10.12.2016 Natalia / 30.12.2015
10 I love Kovalev very much. I read and looked at a lot. One thing I don’t understand is his greed, because the main thing is to give, to share, the more you give, the more you have.
***************
It means that you have not GIVEN enough to get Kovalev's books for free :-)))
Helena/ 14.10.2016 Alina T, "By the way, people are mirror reflection each other. If you look in the mirror and see greed, remember that you are seeing yourself. Either seek the good wise eternal or don't look in the mirrors. "
Take a look at yourself. What's in your mirror?
As for YouTube, I prefer to read in order to slip through somewhere quickly, and somewhere to sharpen my attention, to think. Yes, and I have no time to sit at the computer, watch what is possible for me and do not need.
Running through my eyes. it is immediately clear whether it is worth spending time on it or not.
Alina T/ 05/01/2016 After getting to know the author and his works through films and programs, I am all the more offended for the fatherland. Here, the author is scolded for being greedy, saying that the book does not allow downloading ... Walk on YouTube ... do not be lazy ... the author is incessantly developing and recommends for the effect not to read books, but to participate in seminars, listen to his speeches. Because by the time the book is completed, it ceases to be relevant ... he says it himself. Moreover, he says that in books 1% of everything he knows ... Gentlemen, the author is a perfectionist and he knows about it and works on his shortcomings, he himself talks about it ...
How did culture shrink if so many people immediately fall for money ... By the way, everything on YouTube is free, do not be lazy and go in. You will be very surprised. Especially those who talk about greed. By the way, people are mirror images of each other. If you look in the mirror and see greed, remember that you are seeing yourself. Either seek the good wise eternal or don't look in the mirrors.
Good luck everyone
EVGENY SAMUSENKO / 23.04.2016 The main principle psychotherapy - We will not solve your problem, but we will help you change your attitude to it. So everyone who works with this psychotechnique Kovalev can be congratulated. They have already picked up the "key to themselves."
He was born quite a long time ago, but as a person who is going to live happily ever after (due to neuroprogramming of his own Consciousness and Body), he has already changed his birth dates twice.
Successfully graduated from the Faculty of Psychology of the Moscow State University(although he lost his red diploma due to the "four" in the exam scientific communism). Having changed several rather exotic jobs (such as the Krasnogorsk Mechanical Plant, the Krasnogorsk Komsomol State Committee and even the VLKSM Central Committee), with relief I got a job at the Department of Sociology and Psychology of the Moscow Institute of Management. And in vain, as it turned out that this is the same office that fully and completely meets the principle of "a pack of comrades" and "a terrarium of like-minded people." From "grief" wrote and published his first books on psychology modern family... Unable to withstand the terror of the councilors, he fled to free bread, opening one of the first cooperatives in Russia. He never returned to the civil service, but managed to fall in love with NLP, and being in this still unceasing state of love, he also protected himself, and at the same time created his own scientific direction: Eastern version of neuroprogramming (the author's method of counseling and psychotherapy). He opened his own Center for NLP Technologies in order to move neurolinguistic programming not only forward, but also to the masses.
He joined the work of the World University for the Development of Science, Education and Society (WUDSES) in order to somehow contribute to the convergence of educational and scientific programs Russia and the world. Within the framework of the All-Russian Professional Psychotherapeutic League (APPL), he created the Interregional Department of NLP Consulting, Coaching, Psychology and Psychotherapy, sincerely (but, it seems, unsuccessfully) hoping to combine the diverse and diverse actions of "gentlemen enelper", and at the same time to somewhat raise the level of qualifications and demand the designated community. Became a member (perhaps in vain) of many public organizations, including (if I am not mistaken) the movement "Russia without drugs" and the Guild of Automobile Journalists. He wrote a bunch (about two dozen) of books on psychology and neurolinguistic programming, and not only did not stop, but on the contrary, began to write them with redoubled zeal.
Now he lives happily in own home in the near Moscow region, from where he gets out to Moscow not often and not willingly. Leads a lot of trainings in the Moscow region and in Rostov-on-Don, and intends to significantly expand this geography. He still works insanely, but with even greater pleasure.
He has been happily married for a long time, brings up his beloved daughter, and from other household members a dog and a cat. No longer young, but still far from the same as before, but engaged in oriental martial arts and the "iron game". Moderately, but confidently, he practices esotericism, qigong, meditation and astral flying. And, most importantly, he is going to do a lot more in this earthly life ...
Official data
Psychologist, psychotherapist, management consultant, political consultant.
Doctor psychological sciences, professor, academician IIA.
PhD, GrPhD, Full professor.
Psychotherapist of the World and European Registry, certified Master Trainer of NLP and specialist in Ericksonian hypnotherapy.
Full member of the Russian Psychological Society and the All-Russian Professional Psychotherapeutic League (APPL).
President of the Interregional Department of Neuro-Linguistic Programming: NLP Consulting, Coaching, Psychology and Psychotherapy of APPL; Community Certified Consultant; official trainer and supervisor of the international class of the PPL practice.
General Director of LLC "Center for NLP Technologies"; Vice President of the Social Security Agency, Vice President of WUDSES.
A surge of interest in psychology as a purely practical science became apparent at the beginning of the 2000s. At this time, psychology left the offices of scientists "to the people", and psychologists began to enjoy popularity as healers human souls able to provide real help... The concept of "practical psychology" appeared.
One of its brightest representatives is the psychologist Kovalev Sergey Viktorovich, who, having deployed an active work at the turn of the 90s-early 2000s, continues to work successfully today, healing the wounds of human souls.
Anyone can be happy.
Kovalev Sergey Viktorovich, psychologist
Biography
Sergey Viktorovich was born in 1954, on January 14. He studied well, strived for knowledge, after school he entered Moscow State University. There he passed full course training at the Faculty of Sociology and Psychology. A talented student was "threatened" with a red diploma, but the whole thing was ruined by Marxism-Leninism: he failed to get an "A" in this subject.
After graduation, psychologist Sergei Viktorovich Kovalev managed to work in several places, including such unexpected for a specialist of his profile as the Krasnogorsk Mechanical Plant. By the time changes are outlined in the country, Kovalev is already a formed psychologist and able to take his fate into his own hands: he opened a cooperative, leaving a stable but unpromising job, and wrote several works. The books dealt mainly with family relationships.
Subsequently, he became interested in neurolinguistic programming (abbreviated as NLP) and developed the Eastern version of this trend in psychology. For reference: NLP is a way of influencing individuals, which includes modeling of behavior and control over the mind.
Note! For those who own this technique, it becomes possible to program thinking - not only their own, but also the thinking of the opponent.
Sergey Viktorovich took part in the work of the World University for the Development of Science. As he himself notes, this was done by him in order to bring together, if possible, learning programs adopted in Russia and around the world. In other words, in this way he indirectly contributed to the development of uniform training standards.
Today, the scientist lives in the Moscow region, where he continues to work in the field chosen in his youth, and also improves his body, doing martial arts and qigong practice. With a noticeable amount of self-irony, Kovalev notes that he somehow managed to become a member of a large number all sorts of societies, sometimes not understanding why, such as the Guild of Automobile Journalists. He is married and has an adult daughter. Favorite members are a dog and a cat.
Current activity
Sergey Kovalev has many regalia and titles. Let's list at least a part:
- Doctor of Psychology;
- Professor;
- President of the Interregional Branch of the Institute of Neurolinguistic Programming;
- certified master trainer of NLP;
- General Director of the Institute of Innovative Psychotechnology;
- Scientific Director of the Center for Practical Psychology.
The main area of activity today is conducting trainings and seminars in Moscow, Moscow region and Rostov-on-Don. As a professional coach, political consultant, Kovalev conducts training courses and assists everyone who has difficulties with career guidance.
On Youtube you can find a selection of videos where a psychologist gives advice and recommendations to those who want to go through their life path with meaning and dignity for free.
In 2009-2010 Kovalev hosted the radio program “About Us. Psychology of the Intimate ”. Many recognized themselves in the heroes and learned methods of overcoming failures, learning from mistakes.
You can look at the site of Sergei Viktorovich - there is also a lot of interesting things for those who are eager to gain new knowledge.
He also continues to write books. To date, he has written 36 editions.
Books
If the first works were devoted to family psychology, then later the author was carried away by the themes of self-knowledge, the search for meaning, the search for opportunities to make life bright, rich and reveal the spiritual potential hidden in each person.
The easiest for an unprepared reader are:
- "Rely on the doctor, but do not make a mistake yourself";
- Healing with NLP;
- « Neuroprogramming of Successful Destiny ”.
This block is intended to convince the reader: many diseases are caused by psychosomatics, and therefore, almost not giving in to treatment traditional drugs, they give up with purposeful and persistent "mental" work on them.
Indisputable fact: with the help of psychological techniques and changes in the way of thinking we are able to cope even with chronic or almost incurable ailments!
In the first decade of the new millennium, 2006–2008, a series of 3 works by Kovalev was published, dedicated to the Eastern version of NLP developed by him. In the books, the psychologist shares techniques that enable us to know ourselves and better understand our own goals and aspirations. In addition, the veil of secrecy over “alien souls” is being lifted. It becomes easier to understand your colleagues, partners and relatives.
Lectures
Seminars and lectures take up a large amount of work of the scientific director of the Center for Practical Psychology. Personal example is, without a doubt, the most convincing way of teaching. And if the material is also supported by the unconditional charisma of the lecturer, then success is guaranteed.
Here are the topics of Sergey Kovalev's courses and seminars:
- "The crises that we are going through" (about personal crises on different stages life path);
- "Secrets of Effective Communication" (useful to everyone, and especially to businessmen and managers);
- "Why don't we achieve what we want" (oh typical mistakes"A dreaming man");
- Reality Management.
Those who have been trained according to Kovalev's methods assure: in fact, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Even if you have lost your life guidelines and the meaning of your own existence, with the help of a revolution in thinking, carried out under the guidance of an experienced psychologist, you will definitely return it. The main thing is to have a strong desire.
Let's work on ourselves?
“The soul is obliged to work” - we all know. But how and why?
Psychologist Sergei Viktorovich Kovalev has long found the answer to these questions. If you follow him along the darkened corridors of your own consciousness, you will be able to free yourself from the oppressive, meaningless burden of the past, find a new yourself and turn your life from a gray existence filled with constant vanity and endless work into a bright and colorful one, full of emotions, desires and goals. holiday.
These will be goals that will definitely come true, because now you will become the master of your destiny, and not a timid guest who accidentally glanced into this world.
